I cheated on my boyfriend should i tell?

If I was the boyfriend, and you told me, you'd be out the door.

Anytime something like this happens, it will surely be learned by the other party eventually. The longer it is held in secrecy, the great the hurt will be when it is revealed. In any true relationship, honesty and communication must be always present - fess up now and get the anguish over with - it may hurt a little, or may cause a breakup.

One must ask themselves, before ever doing anything that may threaten an ongoing relationship, "what are the consequenses of my actions and how will my actions affect others whom I love and care for?" Cheating on someone gets nowhere, doesn't prove a thing, and is dishonest in a true relationship. You not only hurt others, you also hurt yourself.