I have been married for almost twenty years now and my husband doesn't have time for me.He puts even the most trivial of things before me.Why would he be this wayand what should I do?

Well, maybe he is stressed out and needs to relax. Maybe you should massage him or get him in a good mood. Or maybe he has something on his mind. Just talk with him in bed so he can relax and feel comfortable. Hope this helps. :)