If an unwed woman wants to give her baby up for adoption and the father wants to keep the baby can he stop the adoption from going ahead?
yes they both have to agree on the terns
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No they can not. In the case of being a minor parent the minors have the same rights as adults to decide.
A if you are still wanting to give your baby up i would love to talk to you about adopting your baby, i would provide you with all your medical, and make sure you are completely taken care of, could you please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org A im sorry to hear about u having to put ur baby up… for adoption but u think about it all which is good thing..husband and i we are wanting to adopt and well he is 28 yrs old im 32yrs ols and unable to have children of our own.we want an open adoption but anyways we might be able to help each other out so email me at email@example.com ill send u my phone number and we can talkand maybe get to know each other please email me thank u and good luck nswer Hi, sorry about you situation. I know someone who can help you email me at firstname.lastname@example.org I have a friend that her and her husband would like to adopt a baby. Private adoption is another way to go that is where you meet the couple that is gonna adopt your baby and you go through an adoption agency. Email me and I will give you their contact info. Good luck, Michelle Contact Bethany Christian Services of Orange City, Iowa.(712)737-4831. You can look through family profiles to select the family that would be best to place your child with. Answer Call your county human services or court house they should be able to direct you in the right direction.. but personally I have three children and wish you would think things through because there might be a dy when you regret adopting your baby to just anyone. Children are the greatest gift a woman can ever have Answer All states have "safe haven" laws which allows a mother to relinquish a newborn or an infant under thirty days old, at any hospital or qualified medical facility. No forms to fill out, no questions asked, no judgment rendered. Or if you prefer you can contact Birthright at 1-800-550-4900 who will place you in contact with trained personnel to give you assistance and counseling in the adoption procedure. http://www.birthright.org Answer When I decided 2 1/2 years ago to place my unborn daughter for adoption, I found an adoption attorney in the yellow pages. I was young and didn't know where else to look, but there are a lot of agencies listed under adoption that would help you start the process. im sorry to hear about u having to put ur baby up for adoption but u think about it all which is good thing..husband and i we are wanting to adopt and well he is 28 yrs old im 32yrs ols and unable to have children of our own.we want an open adoption but anyways we might be able to help each other out so email me at email@example.com ill send u my phone number and we can talkand maybe get to know each other please email me thank u and good luck ( Full Answer )
Can an illegal alien give a baby up for adoption and will an adoption agency help with that process?
Answer . Call Planned Parenthood and ask for assistance with finding adoption agencies in your area.. there are many people looking to do priv ate adoptions. that is one easier way to go about adoption.. ANYONE CAN GIVE UP A CHILD FOR adoption.
I am pregnant and do not want to keep the baby however i do not want to carry it to term and give it up for adoption?
If you are a healthy woman and no diseases the baby can get know the child is already a living thriving thing, you can Google abortion videos and see them struggle and in pain no matter how young they can feel pain. Christian or not the right thing is you made a decision and you have to follow throu…gh. Its the mature responsible adult right thing you could ever do. Hoever, if you know you cant afford a child look into your choice now in whether it be adoption or a family member who has never been able to get pregnant . There are people who will pay you to carry a child and give it to them. Google it. There are so many choices . I myself would like to have a child as soon as i can afford to buy food and etc. But i know women like me would be more than happy to have the child. Its a gift your body has some of our does not. Without young women like you we wouldn't be able to have the option of being a mom. ( Full Answer )
What should you do if you have a baby with your ex that you want to give up for adoption because your ex does not communicate with you but you do not want to mess up your future with your boyfriend?
If the father of the child has no communication with you and takes no part in caring for it or even sending a dollar for its food, then you can either keep the baby or send it for adoption, whichever you want. You do not have to ask his permission. But it sounds like you have found one of those r…are men who thinks a ready-made family with a pretty mama and a cute baby (that is past the stage of waking every 3 hours for food) is a good thing to have. SO you might want to sit down with this guy, make it clear that you are not looking for just a father for the baby, or are trying to "trap" him, but ask him if he is serious about caring for the baby as part of his family. Of course, if you are going to adopt out the baby, you need to adopt it out while it is still a baby, and not a 30 year-old man, so you need to talk to the boyfriend quietly and seriously about the future for the three of you. Your ex, as far as I can see from your long question, has absolutely no part in this. It is just you, the baby, and the new boyfriend who has, after all, already told you he would like to help you care for the baby. Seems he's already made his position pretty clear; and the only question remains whether you want to keep the baby with you, or not. it all is up to you and what you what to do no one else can live your life.only u kow whats going to make u happy.and starting a new relationship withh a new man and someone else'sbaby doesnt sound like a good start to me.but then again i don't know what will make u happy and just remember as long as u have this ababy in your life u will have your ex in your life too..anyways email me if u want to put the baby upfor adoption cause i have someone who would love to adopt ur baby firstname.lastname@example.org ( Full Answer )
Should you give your baby up for adoption if your ex doesn't show any interest in you and you don't want the baby but you know it would hurt him because he wanted a child?
Answer . If his name is on the birth certificate, he will certainly need to know before you can allow the child to be adopted. If he has not shown any interest in the child, and is not paying child support, then it is entirely reasonable for you to seek a better home for your child. Just wanting …a baby is not enough for parenthood (as you seem to know!)--raising a child into an adult takes a lot of time and effort. Your baby's needs come before the ex's wants. And, he owes you child support for the entire period until the child is 18. ( Full Answer )
Answer . There are a couple of options. You can give birth and terminate your parental rights therefore letting the father have full custody. Or you can find an agency you want to use (adopthelp.org is great) and your case worker can help convince the father.
We are in the same kind of process. First of all, if you have aborth mother already, that wants to give her child up to you, youwill need a lawyer. Draw up a contract. She will really need alawyer too. If she does not have the money, and you really wantthis child you can legally pay for her lawyer. …You will want tohave contracts drawn up and specify EVERYTHING you can think of.Then you move forward from there. Answer2: When a parent voluntarily terminates parental rightsstates require one or both parents to legally consent to theadoption. Most states require consent to be in writing and done before a judge or othercourt-appointed person. Many states have designed programs to helpwith the transition for all persons involved. ( Full Answer )
There are no financial costs involved with relinquishing a childfor adoption. There may be, however, great emotional costs thatshould be closely evaluated before such a final and irrevocablestep is taken. Answer2: There is no cost to give up a baby, but states willrequire consent to be in writing an…d done before a judge or othercourt-appointed person. This applies equally to biological mothersand biological fathers who have established paternity. Many stateshave designed programs to help ease the transition for all partiesinvolved. This includes children, birth parents and adoptiveparents to prevent anxiety, trauma, coercion or other negativepsychological effects that may come during an adoption process. ( Full Answer )
Can an Underage mother whod wants to put baby up for adoption prevent the underaged father from adopting?
I Know Of Something Similar To This Happening About A Year And A Half Ago.. The Father Wanted The Baby And The Mother Did Not, However, They Were Not Underage.. But Wether You Are Underage Or Not Doesn't Make The Difference, In Some States If You Have A Child Than You Are Automatically Considered …An Adult By Law, It's True For Michigan Anyways.. Well, The Father Wanted To Keep The Baby And The Mother Did Not, So What The Mother Ended Up Doing Was Dropping The Child Off At A Police Station And The Infant Was Taken Into Custody By The State, By The Way, Dropping A Child Off At A Police Station Or A Hospital Is Only Legal If The Infant Is Three Days Old Or Less.. Anyway, The State Got The Child, And The Father Sued And He Won The Case, Putting His Baby's Mother In Jail For Awhile, And He Got Full Custody.. So, There's My Legal Knowledge, Now I'll Give You My Advice:. For One, Why Give The Child Up If There's A Parent Willing To Take Care Of Him/Her? The World Needs More Fathers Like This One, We've Got Too Many Deadbeats. And If The Father Has No Reason To Not Be A Fit Father Than He Will Get Full Custody, No Matter What The Mother Wants, All She Has To Do Is Sign Her Rights Over, Unless She Does Something Horrific, Then Her Rights Will Just Be Taken From Her.. Anyway, It's Pretty Sick To Try To Force Adoption On A Parent Who Is Trying To Care, The Only Way The Mother Could Do This Is If The Father Was Visibly Unable To Care For The Child And The Mother Would Have To Prove That To The State, Then The Child Would Be Taken From The Father's Care. Ex. If The Father Beat The Child, Neglected The Child, Molested The Child, Or Was Unemployed, In Debt, Or Had Drug Problems, Gang Problems, Etc Etc Etc. Those Would Be Some Probable Causes For The Child To Be Legally Taken From The Dad. But If The Mother Just Simply Wants Nothing To Do With The Baby And Wants The Same For The Other Parent Then No, The Mother Will Not Win. ( Full Answer )
Its called being responsible. No mother wants to give a child up for adoption, nor should she be put in a position that she has to. That is a wound that will never heal. And every child has a right to know its mother's love. If denied it the emotional scars will pervade its whole life. Few adopted c…hildren are contented children, many carry the guilt of thinking it is their fault that they were abandoned.( And there is a little something out there called STD's.) ( Full Answer )
as every mother k nows you get attached to youre child after holding him or her just one time but when you love somthin so much but you know you cant properly care f for the child so you give it up up for adoption even though this gives you painbut you know that its for thebest even though at the ti…me it may not feel liit is ( Full Answer )
A woman can put a baby up for adoption without the father's consentin Utah. This has caused some controversy, and the Governorrecently signed off on a partial fix in an effort to close theloophole, forcing a residency requirement of 90 days.
Contact a local adoption agency. They can arrange prospectiveadoptive parents and meeting to discuss the options you haveregarding the idea. You can also talk to the hospital social worker where you have yourbaby. They are trained to help you not only in making yourdecision, but also in helping you… decide if you want an openadoption (one where the child can find you when he or she is grown)or a closed adoption (one where the records will be sealed). In addition, they work with various adoption agencies, and will beable to help you in deciding which one to use. Answer also: Please contact your local Social Services departmentthey will be more than happy to give you information. ( Full Answer )
If 15 yr old girl 16 yr old boy are having baby and want to adopt out can parents of kids make them keep the baby or can the kids legally put baby up for adoption?
No, only the parents decide this and the adoption papers is the only legally binding contract a minor can sign. When it comes to your child you have the same rights as an adult. No one can force you to keep the child, abort or give it up for adoption.
i do think they should keep their baby if they are ready for it. If they know it for a fact that they do not want to give their baby up and wants to keep it then teens if you are in the middle of junior high or high school find a trusted adult to watch your baby through out the day and when you get …home and get your business done then spend time with your baby so they know who their mom is thanks for your time please please teens take my advice ( Full Answer )
A decision of that magnitude requires both of you to agree. Unless he changes his mind, sorry no adoption.
My mom is making me give up my baby girl to be for adoption. I want to keep my baby more then anything i dont know what i should do or who i should go to?
I think you should talk to your mom and come up with a plan that will work for both of you. I understand that your are way too young and should not have made that decision but on the other hand that is your biological child. I am a firm believer that one should take care of ones responsibilities. If… you give that child up knowing you wanted it, years will go by and you will wonder where is that child. It will be a big weight to carry around. I also don't think anyone but you can decide whether to do that or not. it's your child not hers and it might mean you have to move but she still have to provide for you. Contact a socialworker since if you have to move out they are the ones that will have to help you. They can also help you speak to your mom since stayoing with her is probably the best option for the both of you. ( Full Answer )
I am 14 should i give my baby girl up for adoption i want to keep my daughter but my mother says im not ready?
The law says it's up to you and only you but it's important you understand what it entails. Your mother knows. She's had a baby once. You will also struggle with homework and other things. You can look for a family if you want but you don't sign anything until after birth. Sit down with your parents… and go through what life would be like if you did keep her. Do you and the dad have money, what are your plans regarding education, are there daycare and can you pay for it, health insurance and a million other things. Strangers online can not make a life changing decision for you - only you can. ( Full Answer )
Yes, you can give a child up for adoption without going through an adoption agency. It's called a private/independent adoption.
I am pregnant but i don't want to keep the baby and i refuse to go through labor to put it up for adoption how do i cause myself to have a miscarriage?
You could always have someone beat you up!. I find this question to be creepy and queer. Labor really isn't as bad as it sounds, and there is no way to give yourself a miscarriage without injuring yourself badly as well. Although, after reading this question, I kind of feel like you would deserve i…t. Anyways, the safest way to get rid of the unborn fetus is to get an abortion at a clinic. Just for your information, however, an abortion hurts just as bad as labor OR trying to give yourself a miscarriage. :) Enjoy! ( Full Answer )
Can a 19 year old mom give up her new baby for adoption even if the grandparents want the baby and have sole custody of her other two kids?
dont give it away you will regret it and the grandparents would be so disapointed in you, giving up your child means you love the sex and not what happens at the end, iff you are giving up your child, why didnt you use pills or a condom, it is pathetic, please dont petray your child!
I do not believe that there's is minimum age, set by law, to adopt. The decision is usually done after extensive study of the prospective future parents and their home environment. In other words it is a "subjective" evaluation of the fitness of the would-be parents rather than simply an age limit t…est. ( Full Answer )
If a non married father wants to put the child up for adoption but the mother wants to keep it does the father have to pay child support?
Single fathers have no assumed legal rights to the child, so he can't do anything except pay child support.
\n. yes i want to adopt a baby from pakistan and i am resident of spain
that is not right thing to the mother MUST have a say it is her child she give birth to a baby NOT YOU
Yes.......You can choose your rate of seeing your own child. If you don't want to see them you you don't have to! If you want to you can!
I think you have to respect her decisison. SheÂ´s the one who has tolive with it and not you. To make that decision is never easy andshe probably didnÂ´t make it without a lot of thinking back andforth. If the future shows she has made a mistake that will be onher. And IÂ´m sure she knows that…. Answer2: You cannot stop her if the decision is made. However, gether to go to your local Social Services Department , they can giveher assistance and information that can help in her decision. Thereare programs for low income families, assistance with finding ahome and other resources available to her. ( Full Answer )
No, you are the guardian of the child even as a minor. No one canmake you do anything unless you prove to be a unfit parent.Yourfather or even the father of the child can not make you give up thechild for adoption. Answer2: Your father cannot make you give up your baby. What he maybe is overwhelmed …and anxious that his child is having a child. Hemay be anxious as to whether you can finish school, whether he hasto help financially to take care of the baby since you are stilltechnically his dependent. He may be worried that the baby's fathermay bail on his responsibility. With all the negative, there aresome positives to consider. Visit your local Social ServicesDepartment for all information available to you. A number of youngmothers do their best to raise their children with love anddiscipline and some succeed. I admire your bravery for carryingyour child full term, give it all your best to raise your child theright way. Almighty God will bless you and your efforts. ( Full Answer )
Contact a adoption agency. They can arrange prospective adoptive parents and meeting to discuss the options you have regarding the idea.
Does an illegal immigrant father have rights to his American born baby if the American mother gives the baby up for adoption to her family?
You are addressing two unique problems. Illegal immigrant status and a mother who is putting a child up for adoption. The mother, by law in most states cannot give a child up for adoption without the father's permission. (If the mother is under age this is another hurdle you will need to face.) Y…ou will need an attorney to see you through the legal problems you will face if you want to stop the adoption. The sooner the better as many judges are behind the fathers rights to his child, but many more are very sensitive to the best interest of the child and will not be in a hurry to disrupt the relationship a child has formed with his primary care givers even in the case where she or he should not have been in their care. There are many legal aids groups available for a reduced fee or pro-bono if the cost is a consideration. ( Full Answer )
no, not at the spur of the moment, you need to make pre-arrangements. But if it is arranged and legal and all , Yes it happens that way often, usually after 48 hrs are given to birth mother , to give her a chance to decide for sure. I am looking into adopting a baby girl if anyone is looking for… adopting family. am right here waiting ( Full Answer )
You get the medical expenses paid but you can not sell your child, that is illegal. Instead be grateful that the baby comes to a good family that you get to choose.
Does a 15 year old father have rights if the mother wants to give the baby up for adoption in the state of Iowa?
Yes, he has the same rights as her but he have to go to court and prove paternity by a DNMA test so he can get his rights and petition for custody, visitation and pay child support. So get a lawyer to stop the adoption and if the mother refuses, get the court give out acourt ordered DNA test.
Didn't want to have a baby, had it by accident, didn't want to killa new life. Or, they don't have enough money to take care of it.Or, in the very very very very rare case, they may just hate theirbaby's traits. Answer also: I read it's also because parents may lack thefinancial means to raise a c…hild and may not be aware of resourcesavailable to low income families. Also, If a parent is in anabusive relationship, she may not want her baby to experience thesame hardship especially if she doesnt receive support. Also, bothparents may have disabilities that makes raising a child difficultwithout outside support. A teen may also choose adoption if shefeels she is too young, sometimes women do not want to be a singleparent, they may also choose career over being a mom or an olderwoman may feel she cannot handle the demands of raising a child.Reasons are so varied. ( Full Answer )
Juno was going to have an abortion but couldn't go through with it. However she still felt like she didn't want the child herself and put it up for adoption
How about loving and caring for it? The child didn't ask to come into this world, and as an adopted child myself, I can say that when you find out your adopted, your life starts getting really strange. And NOT in a good way. I'm sorry if I come across as pushy, or rude as these are not my intenti…ons. This topic makes me very emotional =P ( Full Answer )
It means having a baby, and you don't want it. So you give it to another family.
no you can put your baby up for adoption anytime but its too late to get an abortion
Can a mother get in trouble for putting her baby up for adoption if the father wants the baby in North Carolina?
If they are not married he is nobody to the baby and he will have to establish himself as the legal father before he can exercise any rights. He needs to both register himself as a putative father, and then he'll need to bring a paternity suit in court once the child is born. If he is a good man and… a good father make sure you are doing the right thing regarding your child. That is his biological father after all. If you don't want the child maybe it is better he get to stay with family, just not yours. Try to get along on this one or you will be facing each other in court. It would also not be fair to the people who wants to adopt him if they first get him and then he's taken away. If the father truly wants his child it will be horrible for him not to ever see him again. ( Full Answer )
Contact a adoptive agency and they will help you finding a family etc. Also make sure the child's father is OK with it or if he wants custody.
This suggests that the dreamer has been given or assigned to a task or project that they would like to "give away." The dreamer feels responsible for something but would rather be free from that responsibility.
No, because that would be like selling your baby and that is inhumane and also illeagal
Well, discounting the psychological cost, yes. Infertile couples routinely pay 5 figures for the privilege of adopting a baby.
They don't feel ready to parent yet, They can't take care of the child themselves due to finances, school etc. The court find them unfit to parent. They never wanted a child and found out too late they were pregnant. The father left so now they don't think they can be a single parent. The…re are many many individual reasons. ( Full Answer )
My Dear, this is a choice only you and the father can make. You are the ones who have to live with the decision so no one else can make that for you. It's not easy to give up a baby nor is it fair to keep it if you are not capable of caring for him in the best way. Make a list of how your life will …change, because it will w/e you choose, and be realistic. If you are a teen living at home speak to your parents. They can help. ( Full Answer )
What if a young girl is pregnant and wants to keep her baby but mom thinks she should give it up for adoption.?
That is a difficult position to be in. A lot of it depends on the age of the "young girl." Has she finished high school? Is she old enough to get a job, get her own apartment, buy her own food, support her baby? "Wanting" is very different from "doing." Who will watch the baby when this young girl i…s at school? Is it fair to the girl's mom and dad to expect them to support another person if this young mom can't do it? What will the girl be able to do and not do. But most of all is it good for the baby? What kind of life will this new person have? Will there always be arguments and hard financial times? Will he/she be able to get a good education and always feel loved, or will there be resentment both from the new mom for all the things she now may not be able to do and the grandparents. And, what about Dad? As a mom myself I understand the young girl's position. My daughter is 19, I'm not sure how I would advise her in this situation, but I would tell her that once you become a mom, it's not about YOU any more. This new person did not ask to come here, but deserves the best life possible and it's up to you as the mom to make sure your child gets it, and sometimes that means making hard decisions. Good luck and may your heart and mind be clear. ( Full Answer )
What should a 15yr old girl do if she wants to keep her baby but her mom wants her to give it up for adoption Is there help out there for her if her mom kicks her out?
Well first off, do not let your mother tell you what to do if you don't agree. It is your child and it is your choice. Good for you for trying to get help. I suggest seeking the help of a friend if you are kicked out. Try and get support from the father of the baby. Talk to a school counsellor, I am… sure they would have advice, some knowledge and possibly past experience? If you google your local area, I am sure there are hotlines that provide advice and support. You need to ask the people in your life for help, people you wouldn't necessarily consider as being a part of your life. Even teachers could be of assistance. Maybe research if there is a teen mom group in your area? They could definitely offer support and advice. If it comes down to it, try and stay with a friend, or another relative. A homeless shelter is the last place you should consider. ( Full Answer )
What does it mean if you dream about the father of you unborn child wants to give up the baby for adoption?
Nothing. Unless the father says something it could just mean you're having nightmares. If he stopped helping you out an everything when you got pregnant then that's probably where the dream came from but unless he says he wants to it doesnt mean anything.
What if stepfather wants adoption for pregnant teenager's baby but stepdaughter wants to keep baby without ability to care for baby?
Unless the step father has adopted the step daughter at one time, he has no say so in what she does with her child. Talk to a lawyer. There is Legal Aid to ask as well.