You can hire an attorney or represent yourself but will eventually need to go to NY to finalize the divorce. Search the web for NY Court Divorce Forms. Just make sure if you've been served with papers already that you ANSWER in the time alotted! Good Luck.
Pay For it yourself you cow
Not as an attorney, but could mediate an agreement. Each has to pay exactly half the fees.
Depends on what type of issue they are handling. If it deals with divorce, probably. If it is simply business deals or even criminal cases, no there isn't a conflict of interest, unless he is representing both parties in the same action or negotiation and they are on opposite sides.
Consult a good divorce attorney.
in India it is not
Many wives have abandoned husbands over the years. An attorney can file divorce papers and the husband will be granted a divorce.
only pro se.
No because he is not still your husband. You have divorced yourself from him, so therefore have separated yourself from him.
Ask your attorney about suing your husband for divorce "in absentia).
Any divorce attorney should be capable of handling this case.
You need to arrange a consultation with a divorce attorney in your area who can review your situation and explain your options under the laws in your jurisdiction.
Absoultely! If your soon-to-be ex husband is in a relationship with this woman it is a serious conflict. How can you expect to get fair and unbiased legal representation? Find another attorney, file against this attorney for conflict of interest and get on with the divorce!