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I've been in a similar situation before. One of my best friends liked me, but I didn't feel the same way about him. I know that he liked me for at least two years, but thankfully he never stopped being my friend because of it. In my opinion, you should think about how good of a friend she is, and if you really want to lose her. I know my situation is reversed, and I'm not the person who did the liking, but I also know that he is still one of my best friends and that he has moved on. Have you tried to talk to her about this? If you haven't then maybe you should. My friend was very upfront about liking me. I just know that my friend decided that he would rather just be my friend than not have me in his life at all. Just do what you feel is right in your heart. It's easy to say stay as friends, but that's hard to do if hanging with her just brings out bad feelings that you wish you were more than friends. Since you are considering ending your friendship because of your feelings for her, what is the down side of telling her how you feel? It's not the loss of a friend, because you're thinking of ending your relationship anyway. In other words, not saying anything to her leaves you with one less friend and no girlfriend. But telling her how you feel leaves you with one less friend and a bruised ego or -- maybe, just maybe -- a girlfriend!

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