If you are 14 and pregnant and starting to show how do you tell your parents when you are really scared?
well im in the same situation. im 14 and im scared as hell how to tell my mom. i don't kno wat kind of reaction she finna have. but my sista was 15 when she got pregnant and my mom found out. she didnt have anything close to the reaction that i thought she was gona have. she was just really disapointed. so i think when i tell my mom that im pregnant she ain't gona flip. but a suggestion that i would think is good is you either writing her a note or leaving a note on the fridge and putin your cell numba and saying to call when there coold off and then you go to a friends house or something just to think about what your gona do.I had the same problem only i am 16 years old i told my mom when i was 2 months pregnant. She was real strict and i knew she wasnt gonna support me but she needed to know. If you don't feel comfortable talking to her in person you can write her a letter which i did so i can say everything i wanted to or you can have a doctor call her and let her know maybe tell a close relative and they could come with you to tell her so they can be there for support. I know that it's hard but eventually everything will be okay!
If you're far enough along to be showing, then I hope you've gotten some medical care. You need to tell your Mom *now*. Don't put it off any longer. In regard to the previous poster's ideas, the one about having someone there for support is excellent (a relative or a close family friend), but, as a parent, I can tell you that I wouldn't be thrilled if I got this kind of news in a letter. If my child made the adult mistake of getting pregnant, then they need do the adult thing and actually tell me in person. That's merely my personal opinion.
writing letters are a good idea, that way you can get everything out without someone disagreeing with you before finish. also let your parents know your intions about this baby. i am also a parent, and i had my baby at fifteen.
i also don't agree with letter-writing. your parents will think better of you if you tell them in person, it will make you seem more mature. they wont like it, I'm not saying that, and as for them disagreeing with you before you finish as the previous poster suggested- my suggestion is to be blunt. for example:
"Mum, I've got something really important to tell you. you wont like it. (pause) I'm pregnant."
if your mother is one to rant and rave, be as meek as 'mother may I..' (pardon the pun) and questions as they come. don't get overheated as this will lead to a massive fight and you two avoiding each other for the next couple of days.
if your mother just sits there with her mouth open in awe at shocking news, then slowly explain the situation. give only facts: his name, how far along you are, when you found out.
again having someone there for emotional support is a must, they can help ease the situation by comforting you and your mother
try to use pregnancy test.. and if you are really pregnant you need to be open to your parents :)) Read More
Well i am pregnant and im 14 should i tell my parents i DO NOT want them to break me and my boy friend up IM SCARED HElp me please im hurting?
Well you can't be a mother at 14! I think you should tell you parents cause its the best thing to do. If you really love you boyfriend they might understand. My parents did, (I didn't get pregnant at 14 btw!!) And you will need help. Be brave and good luck!! Read More
He gets in trouble a lot but we both really like eac other and he's sweet to me but my mom doesn't like him, he swears and I nervouse what everyone will think what should I do? And why am I do scared to have a boyfriend am I really just scared of my parents? Ps I'm 14 Read More
He will feel protective towards you and rather scared and excited about the new baby. Read More
When she found out she was pregnant, she was very shocked and scared. Her parents also found out and yelled at her. Read More
Scared or not - it's better you tell them before it's too late ! You have a choice whether to continue the pregnancy, or have a termination. If you decide to carry on, you need to decide whether to keep the baby or put it up for adoption. You CANNOT make these decisions on your own - and will have to tell your parents eventually. Read More
Im 16 years old and i really want to have a baby and start a family my boyfriend agrees he totally want the same thing im scared how i would tell my parents if i did get pregnant any help?
I would suggest you speak with your parents now before you get pregnant as they have more experience than you and will be able to explain all the pitfalls for getting pregnant at such an early age. You and he may get into serious trouble with the law if you go ahead before you are both above the age of consent also so read up on this too. Read More
You are really scared because your best friend has talked to you about what you should do if she collapses from her bulimia and goes into hospital or dies - What should you do?
Well, tell her parents, your parents, or a councilor of some sort that she's Bulimic. Read More
No... Kids ages 4-12 years sleep in their parents' bed like all time but Maggie is too scared. Read More
It all really depends on why you're scared to sleep in there. This has happened to me before, where I get scared about something and am scared to sleep in my room. I guess all you can really do is not sleep in your room if it really bothers you that much. Read More
Why am i having sudden weight gain I'm scared I'm recovery of a eating disorder and i eat right exercise not pregnant I'm hardly eating exercising a lo and still gaining. I'm really scared. pleasehelp?
are you sure your not pregnant you might be because that is very unusual if i where you i would get a pregnancy test and if your to young to buy one then i would tell your mum/dad/gran/grandad anyone who is close to you that your scared about this i really hope i helped and hope for the best. Read More
They are most likely scared to sleep on there own. They might just be really attached or their parents. Also, they want that safety of knowing they are protected by their parents. Read More
scared;scared of dark Read More
she was scared of going to jail, her parents divorcing and getting shot Read More
I am 9 weeks pregnant and i found a brownish color when i went pee and i was just wondering if its normal or not im really scared as this is my first baby?
Aks a doctor Read More
Afraid is a synonym for scared. It begins with the letter a. Read More
they just pretend they are scared. they are really vampires Read More
They yelp because they get scared and they get really fustrated Read More
SPONGEBOB is not scared of anyone really . except when he went to the new toy store and the robot scared him . Read More
you might get scared because its someone ur parents or someone dont no u talk to Read More
probably not. Read More
They don't pee because when they're scared they're thinking about what is scaring them not about that unless they're really scared. YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW ALOT DO YOU. hahahah Read More
im not scared because santa is real and i know him did you know that now!!!! Read More
I was so frightened in the haunted house, it really scared me. Read More
you may just destroy them Read More
Can i get sued by my girlfriend's parents if she is pregnant in california if we are both 15 and both want to have this child but she is scared that i might get sued?
Since you are only 15 years old and not a legal adult, you can not be sued, but your parent/legal guardian can be sued. Read More
I am 22 pregnant with boyfriend for six months and we are excited. however we are scared to tell my parents mainly because it will be their 1st grand kid and they are young 39 and 44.?
Just tell them, your excitement will excite them. Age has nothing to do with being a grandparent. They will be happy if you are happy, remember that they are your parents and they love you no matter what. Read More
Wolves are great parents to their young because they do not want them to be harmed or scared or frightened. Wolves usually are pregnant up to 1 year, and fetches their prey for their young and the others in her pack. Their is the answer to your question and I hope this will improve whatever research you are doing and you can discuss this with your friends around you. Read More
you should tell someone other than your parents.....someone like your best friend or close relative.........tell your parents when you feel that it is the time!!=) Or if your too scared to keep something this big from your parents, then sit them down and start off talking about when you first had your sex talk with them. Then tell them that it was just an accident or something different...=) Read More
The best way is to avoid conflict altogether as it only leads to more trouble. You can ask your parents or an authority figure for help. But if you really want to make someone scared to fight you an easy way is to act crazy. Nobody wants to mess with a psychopath. Read More
You have been spotting for 15 days off and on you had a miscarriage at 3 weeks back in nov05 im really scared you called your doctor and they told you it was normal but im still scared plese answer?
Do you know you are pregnant now, have you had a positive test? Aslong as it is just spotting you are probably ok. This is what doctors are for, to tell you what is happening. You cannot miscarry at 3 weeks as you would not even know you are pregnant. If you miscarried 3 weeks after conception that is 5 weeks pregnant not 3 weeks. Read More
firstly you need to wait till your missed period then take a test after that go to your GP and discuss your decision's i am 16 and pregnant i am now nearly 23weeks i found keeping her was the best thing i ever did but it may b different for you I'm sure your parents will support you Read More
Just try it if you are really scared wach other people who do it and mabye then you can try Read More
Moses was not really scared , but he wanted Mosee the burning bush. Read More
I think they are confronting their problems when they realize they are pregnant. Having a child is not for everyone and they deal with the problem. The reason why teens have abortions are the same as for adults, the majority are not ready to be parents yet. Read More
Iv found a lum on your balls and im scared in telling any one because it might be cancer and im really scared?
If You Have Found A Lump You Need To Overcome Your Fears And Go To Your Doctor And If You Dont Want Your Parents To Find Out You Can Tell Your Doctor That And He Wont Say Anything. Read More
Yes he has, although he was scared he got her pregnant(she wasn't pregnant) Read More
When you have a guy you like and are scared to go up to him just go and become his friend and that is when you will see if he really like you and if you really like him Read More