If you are both married but you both have feelings for each other should you continue this or should you end the relationship?

based on my own personal experience - END IT i am married, the girl i fell in love with is married and it got very messy and painful. both of us said we were going to leave our spouses but never did. now there is nothing but painful memories and hurt feelings. it's really not worth it. only get involved if you BOTH decide to divorce who you are with - and only AFTER you actually do it.