The big problem here is that you have a husband and are in love with someone else. I would worry about that issue more than the possible affair with the friend.
You already know two wrongs don't make a right so the best thing to do is let your husband know about his affair and that his friend told you and is now interested in you. Be careful of gossip! Communication is the best skill anyone can have so sit down and calmly discuss this with your husband. It is also up to you to make it plain to your husband's so-called friend that you are not interested in him and stay clear of him. This is no friend of your husbands because he is hoping to have an affair with you behind your husband's back.
They have known the husbands longer. Do you care more about your friend, or me? Your best friend because you just met me.
it is very possible, your husband could also have feelings for him,but at the same time have feelings for you.A choice needs to be made by your husband.if he loves you enough he should tell his friend to go.
well you cant help how you feel, or who your attracted. this friend cant help how he/she feels but this friend can help what he/she does about it. Does your best friend approve of this? Tell your best friend to talk to this friend about the situation
Best thing to do is just let my best friend know that you like her|him , lol I don't care
Because my best friend is not my best friend anymore and i am REALLY REALLY REALLY upset :( :( :(
What fun this is for me to try and give my personal firsthand insight to this question! Well if you have a friend that your really close to and you think you feel sexually attracted to him? Then Bingo, you probaly are undoubtably attracted to them. With having a very close friend who is male whom is practically one of my best friends. But to be really honest I'd say I am not attracted to him in the least and I never was. But for a real friend, we have all the makings of a good relationship and we get along quite well. To sleep with him would be out of the question, unless of course...I WAS ATTRACTED TO HIM! (but I'm not)AnswerBingo - you are attracted to them since that's what you feel. Express how you feel in the moment and you may be pleasantly surprised what happens. Stay in your truth of how you feel and communicate it. When things change, then discuss that too.. it's quite simple and empowering.
Actually, nothing. As long as your ex-husband doesn't have a problem with it.
Your best friend is more important than him, don't ever fall for him back. Even if you do start to feel attracted to him, reject him.
a really really good best friend
Sounds dicey to pursue it. it can cause mad discord in the household.
not really