• Relationships
  • Chevy Blazer S-10
  • Miley Cyrus
  • Human Behavior

If you are not a good looking person how can you get to know people before they judge you on what they see?

User Avatar

Wiki User

βˆ™ 2011-09-12 21:44:29

Best Answer

In my opinion, people that pass judgment on others without knowing them aren't usually the kind of people you want to know. OK, that being said, let me ask you a question. How do you know that people are judging you on what they see? If they tell you to your face that's one thing but if you just assume (maybe from passing judgment yourself?) without really knowing, maybe it's not true. The best way to know something is to go to the source. (If your worried about it, ask them) In other words, give people a chance. They might surprise you.

AnswerMaybe you think that you are not good looking, but they think that you are good looking. If people judge you before they get to know you, they are the ugly ones!


You got some excellent advice above. "I'm older with more insurance" so I can tell you that if ANYONE pre-judges you without getting to know you move on and be independent and true to yourself. This often happens in a person's teens when looks, the type of "cool people" you hang around with is important and name-brand clothing. It's tough for teens today, but, in each generation we all went through peer pressure. School lasts but the blink of an eye (although it may seem like a lifetime for many students having problems in the popularity arena) but hang on, and know these people are shallow and you'll probably never see them again once you leave school.

I agree that you could be assuming people don't like you. In wisdom each of us should learn that no matter how nice we can be not everyone is going to like us and we have to deal with this and move on.

Always remain true to yourself, but try to improve yourself as you grow. Everyone fits in somewhere in the circle of life.

2011-09-12 21:44:29
This answer is:
User Avatar

Add your answer:

Earn +5 pts
Q: If you are not a good looking person how can you get to know people before they judge you on what they see?
Write your answer...

Related Questions

Why do you judge people?

people judge other people because they wanna be that person and also they are very rude and selfish

What if someone lies to a judge and the judge issues a bench warrant for the person that was lied on?

The person with the bench warrant will have to appear before the court. The person who lied may be charged with perjury.

Who said If you judge people you have no time to love them?

Mother Teresa is the person the quote "If you judge people, you have no time to love them" is attributed to.

Is it correct to judge a person by his religion?

I personally believe that it is wrong to judge people based on their religion.

Who is the worst looking in One Direction?

That depends on the person you ask. But, does it matter? You can't judge them by their looks.

A term meaning to bring a person before a judge before he is jailed is called?

I think the term is arraign

A sentences with prejudice in it?

To have prejudice is to "pre-judge" a person before you even know them.

Is it right to judge?

No, its not. It is better to accept each person and not judge. Have you ever heard of the saying "Never judge a book by it's cover?" Well, yeah, technically you should read the book first before you judge it. Just like people. Get to know the person first. Don't judge by their appearances, that will get you hurt. Just like having a crush on someone. Being in love isn't all about's about what's inside. But not all judging is bad! It's sometimes good to judge. Judging if this person is right for you..or determining if this person is liable to be your friend.

How do people judge other people that they meet?

They can easily tell the race of that person, judge them for some things that people of the same race have done wrong, and then assume that person is bad just because people of his/her race did something bad.

Why do you judge by first impressions?

we judge by first impressions because we are looking at what the person can offer that person's "vibe" touching something off in me that says "bad for me", or "good for me".

Will district judge protect someone that is not present?

Not enough information to answer. Does this person have "standing" in the case before the judge? Protect WHO? From WHOM? WHY? For WHAT reason?

What does it mean to judge someone unfairly?

To judge someone unfairly means to think or say negative things about that person before you get to know them

If the police come to your house looking for a person on parole do they have to have a search warrant?

yes they have to have a paper signed by a judge

What is a body only warrant?

"Body only" means that the person who is the subject of the warrant must be brought before a judge, and held in jail until that happens. The person cannot post bail to release the warrant without going before the judge.

Can you judge other societies?

Answer The only people I know who have a right to judge anyone, is a Law court Judge and God. Why anyone would want to judge other societies is beyond me. I don't want anyone to judge me and I'm sure that you the person who asked this question wouldn't want to be judged. It's not a good atmosphere when people judge other people. You as a person can do as you wish. If you want to judge other societies then be my guest, but why you would want to do that is way beyond my understanding.

How does your character influence how people see you as a person?

its obviously one of the significant criterion to judge o person!

What happens when a body attachment is issued for non payment of child support?

The local law enforcement agency picks the person up to appear before the judge. what happens when you appear before the Judge

What do you call a person who quick judge people?

Judgmental, critical, negative, hypercritical

What does the judge mean when he orders a bench warrant for someone?

The judge wants the person arrested and brought before the bench (that being the judge). Usually a bench warrant is for failure to appear or for contempt of court.

Can a judge Perjure himself?

If a judge is acting in his/her capacity of a judge, he/she does not offer testimony and therefore cannot perjure. However, if the judge is testifying as a citizen before another court, he/she is subject to the same rules of perjury as any other person.

What is meaning of the name rumela?

Someone who can read people's footsteps OR A woman who can judge people by looking at their footsteps

Can you judge other person?

I do not believe that anyone has the right to judge another person.

Can a person dismiss a judge?

No. A person cannot dismiss a judge. However, a person can request a judge remove herself from the case if they have a good enough reason.

Court order guaranteeing a person who is arrested the right to appear before a judge?

writ of habeas corpus

What is a person who marries people called?

Celebrants, priests, a preacher, a judge, Justice of the Peace