That depends on the laws in your town or county. Those matters are handled locally. Some towns require that you install the fence with the "good" side toward your neighbor. Some do not. Call your town offices to check.
That issue is usually addressed by local ordinances. You should call your town hall for any restrictions regarding fence installations in your locality.
when building a wood fence in the town of Brookhaven what side of the fence is supposed to face my neighbors property
Usually the posts go on the side of the fence of the person installing it. This is especially true if you build a wooden fence. If the post are on the neighbors side then their kids could be climbing up and down on the fence. I personally would want this. Good luck.
If the fence is their property, and not yours; you would need their consent to make any modification to it.
Ask your neighbors if they care.
As long as the fence is on your property, no.
Yes, if they own the fence.
If a neighbor wanted to install a fence the fence has to be on the neighbors property entirely. Not half the fence on your side and half on the neighbors side. There are also zoning regulations that deal with issues like this. Some counties will not allow a fence to be over five feet tall and they have to be constructed using only approved materials. I know that in my neighborhood metal fences are against code and they can only be constructed using fence block. If I were you I would call the city planning office and ask them, they will have a definitive answer. Who knows, maybe the fence was put up without the proper permits and your neighbor has to take the entire thing down.
The Torkelsons - 1991 Fence Neighbors 1-1 was released on: USA: 21 September 1991
ask if he's ok with it, move the fence back, etc
The fence cannot be outside your property line.
I was raised to the fact that the owner of the fence is to mend the fence but good neighbors would often chip in with work or meterials
The saying implies that with a fence between neighbors you can each maintain your privacy. When people become complacent about their neighbors privacy or wishes then ill feelings can occur. If your neighbor has the run of your yard there is always the chance that they might do something against your wishes. This does not imply that they are going to irritate you on purpose but there is the chance. A fence between the properties will eliminate the chance that they may trespass into something that you do not want to share. This is also not just about a physical fence. It also means that your neighbors should not have free run of the knowledge of your lives and what goes on in your household. There has to be boundries in all relationships which would constitute a fence. In regard to the actual fence it should be low enough to allow communication between the neighbors while keeping some things out. The same applies to the personal fence. Do not build a stone wall between each other that allows for no communication.