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If you really are confused how can you decide once and for all to leave an abusive relationship?

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If you are in an abusive relationship you really must leave. Do you have a friend who could give you moral support at this very difficult time? Get the help of community services. They are funded by donors & by taxes. Women's services, First call for help, etc. They are experts in the field, and they have the answers you need. Every police officer has these phone numbers. You can ask an officer for a phone number.

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