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It's a little of both. A couple gets married because they love each other and when the births of their children come there is a bond there forever. I am so sorry you are going through this, but it does get better. Of course you are afraid and don't want to be alone, but it's obvious that there have been marriage problems that led to this split-up. If he likes to stay with you (and it's not all about sexual relations) perhaps you both need to sit down and talk things out. Sometimes being apart is the best thing when there are marriage problems because people get so caught up in those problems they can't think straight. He may want to try again, but you both need the aid of a marriage counselor if you want it to work. Both of you probably have things you need to improve on. Have that talk with him and if he's not interested, then you are going to have to face the reality of it all and get on with your life. Don't be too afraid, and grieving at this time is normal, but before you know it you'll get your feet under you and yes, there is a life for you with someone else and don't be afraid to remind your ex about that one. Good luck Marcy

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Q: If you recently broke up with your partner of 4 years and you have 2 kids together and always want him over and never want him to leave does that mean you still love him or are you scared to be alone?
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