== == * If you aren't in any sort of contact with him (on a friendship basis) then you have obsessed all these years as to what you think he is and 20 years is a long time and unhealthy for you to feel this way. You should have moved on years ago. He probably is married with children now and plans on staying that way unless you know something we don't know. What you are doing is very unhealthy and ruining your life. Please seek some counseling for this.
well look for signs does he still talk hope it works out
Take him back
Everyone is different and no two relationships are the same, so it is impossible to say what your chances with a girl who still has feelings for an ex-boyfriend would be.
Try asking him
Make him jealous by going out with someone else, love him anyway or slap and find someone else that you can grow to have feelings for.
In this case you should be honest, tell your ex that you still have feelings for him. But, im going to be honest, don't let your current boyfriend find out about it. Tell your ex boyfriend that you still have feelings for him and you know its wrong because you are both dating other people. But mention that you havent yet moved on. & when you admitt you still have feelings for him, reminisce about the things that happened between the two of you.
eat him
well it determines who broke up with who if you broke up with him and he had deep feelings for you this means that he thought your relationship was forever if he broke up with you then that is quite awkward because he thought that he could do better than you. but the fact is that even though he thinks that he will regret it when he cant do better than you.
You shopuld ask yourself is it fair on your current boyfriend if you are not completely committed to the relationship and still have feelings for your ex. Maybe it is too soon after your break-up to have another relationship and you still have some feelings that you need time to deal with.
The truth is, he still has feelings for you. This other person is just to make you jelous.
because even though you guys broke up you broke up for all the wrong reasons which is why you think about him all the time because you still have feelings for him.
still likes you has feelings for you wants to be with you again