If your boyfriend admits that he cheated with two girls while you were separated is it unrealistic to want him to stop being around them?

Dee - do you mean separated as in 1) broke up or just 2) not in the same location? If number 1, then he wasn't cheating. If number 2, then, no, your're not being unreasonable.

I've been there. Separated or together it doesn't matter. He has no business hanging out with ex-lovers no matter what the excuse, it makes you uncomfortable and that's reason enough to drop them off his radar screen.

Oh Yea, and if the "but they are my friends" conversation takes place, tell him REAL friends don't risk their friendship by becoming lovers.