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Educate her on Narcissism, remind her of how awful he is. I was in a similar boat with my cousin. Her ex N was so terrible that we thought he was a sociopath at first and his attitude was often compared to that of a serial killer. He would laugh at that kind of thoughts on him, but he was truly ill. The utter lack of emotion for things he'd done. He would seem to get off on watching her hurt. We recently found out he's a narcissist. The more she can learn and apply the symptoms, the easier it will get to move on. Personally, in my situation I would find times in her relationship where he would be mimicking her likes and dislikes and each time I showed her that he WAS constantly saying that everything she says is the same as him and every emotion he had were exaggerated and she soon became more aware. Luckily I had things to compare it to. It's not an easy thing. Her ex sounds like a pathetic human being. He discarded her and disappeared I assume means he also discarded the child and that is disgusting but for a narcissist it really is nothing out of the ordinary. She is better off without this person. Distance herself from everything pertaining to this person. Block him from re-entering her life at a later date, which I have noticed Narcissist's will do. Come back for more. The child is lucky that he's gone. Take care and good luck.

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Q: If your friend has a child with a narcissist who discarded her and slandered her name then disappeared how can you help her get over the pain and the attachment 2 years after being discarded?
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How do you use slandered in a sentence?

It means to make a false and malicious statement about someone. Here are some sentences.He slandered her, and she sued him.If you slandered me, I didn't notice.When she slandered her neighbor, it harmed her reputation in the community.

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American national slandered institute

Who was the president who was slandered by a Spanish ambassador?

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What are the release dates for Perry Mason - 1957 The Case of the Slandered Submarine 3-23?

Perry Mason - 1957 The Case of the Slandered Submarine 3-23 was released on: USA: 14 May 1960

What happens when you are slandered?

Your reputation can suffer. If the person has a bad reputation, there might be no effect.

If you are investigated by child protective services and it is false do you have a legal right to find out who slandered you?


Can you make a sentence with the word innuendo?

I must prove he has slandered me with his gross innuendo or the judge will not award me damages.

What is good sentence with verbally?

The angry driver verbally slandered the owner of the car that had just cut him off.

By whom was hatake Kakashi's father slain?

Hatake Kakashi's father killed himself after being slandered by his comrade.

How were the jews picked on in history?

They have been expelled, exiled, killed, ghettoized and slandered. See the attached Related Link for a list of such occurrences throughout history.

Weather No system can reach absolute zero temperature?

It is an slandered temperature that has been taken as reference. No system has this temperature some exception are there for perpection systems.

Was Hestia treated fairly in grrek mythology?

Hestia was never slandered by another god/mortal, and was respected by Zeus and all her family in her vow to remain unmarried.

Where the Arawak's cannibals?

The arawaks were not noted to be cannibals because they were easily overpowered by the europeans, however the caribs were aggressive and when the europeans had difficulties the slandered the nation falsely claiming them to be cannibals

Is it common for Narcissists to have a mask-like facial expression and not laugh complain and insult people?

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What has the author Joyce Hengerer Sexton written?

Joyce Hengerer Sexton has written: 'The slandered woman in Shakespeare' -- subject(s): Women, Characters, Women in literature

What is libelled?

If you are "libelled" then someone has writtensomething about you that is not true.If they do the same thing but say it rather than writing it then the term is "slandered".

Can you sue someone for slander if they call you a pedophile when that is what you are not?

Yes, but not necessarily. This is a necessary condition, but an insufficient one. Three things must transpire for slander to legally occur within most jurisdictions. 1) A spurious and unsupported allegation must be made about a person. (Being called a pedophile certainly fits in this category.) 2) Other people aside from the slanderer and the slandered must hear this allegation. (I.e. If the slanderer and slandered are talking privately and no one can hear, no slander occurred. If the slanderer and slandered are talking in the middle of a shop around numerous customers and the same thing is said in a strongly disapproving tone, there may be slander pursuant to the third condition.) 3) Definable harm comes to the slandered individual on account of others hearing the slander. (Most commonly this is economic - i.e. termination, reduction in hours, reduction in business (if a storekeeper), or social - i.e. friend begin to abandon the slandered individual en masse. The social issues are harder to prove in a court of law.) There is a second part of your question that many would not pick up on. "Can you sue" is both a question of permissibility (which was outlined above) and viability. Just because all three of the above criteria are checked does not mean that the civil lawsuit will be successful or that any firm will take the slandered's claim. If there are insufficient witnesses, the damages are too hard to prove, etc. a firm may not believe the case can bring enough windfall to pursue the claim. Note: This answer is not attorney-client privileged, does not entail you to legal representation of any kind, and should not be construed as any viable legal text in any jurisdiction. (Necessary Boilerplate...oh well.)

Can a principal sue a parent for defamation on a website forum?

If the parent has defamed, slandered or libeled the principal, the principal can sue. The media in which the activity occurs does not provide any immunity. Such lawsuits are civil causes of action to prevent just such things from happening.

Can i sue for slander?

yes, but why would you do that unless you might win? As with any lawsuit, you have the burden of proving the facts necessary to show the defendant slandered you and that it caused you some sort of damage. Because slander is oral, you will need witnesses or a recording of what was said.

What can you do if someone on the HOA keeps sending you slanderous email?

You can ignore slanderous e-mail, unless you believe that it compromises your reputation because of its being made available to others besides yourself. You can take the matter up with an attorney if you believe that you are being slandered and harassed.

What is the group name for the song titled Satisfied Lyrics are It's the same old story everywhere I go. I get slandered libel I hear words I never heard in the Bible?

The song is called "Keep the Customer Satisfied" and it's by Simon and Garfunkel from their "Bridge Over Troubled Water" album.

Can you sue a public website and it's anonymous comments for defamation when the primary objective of the website is to publicly bash people and leave comments under the photos?

I suppose that it is possible. You must determine where the website has its operation headquartered and then be able to bring suit against them and prove that you were being libeled or slandered.

What fines you face with slander?

Fines are only levied in criminal cases. Slander is a civil suit and no fine or jail time can be imposed. However the person who was slandered could be awarded money for emotional distress,defamation of charactor or other damages that they incured from your slander Which you would be responsible to pay them for.

Why does polonius want laertes slandered?

He doesn't, really. He wants to see if other people will agree if Reynaldo starts slandering him, and doesn't realize that this plan will hurt Laertes's reputation regardless. He's acting out of curiosity. There's also a wild theory out there that he's specifically trying to get Laertes to kill Reynaldo.