* You have to view if your mates cheating and if they have cheated once and seem to be trying in your relationship then 'to 'err is human' which means anyone can make a mistake. If he is continuously cheating then he has broken that bond of trust you have in him over and over again and it is not likely he will change. So, before you forgive think about the above statement and then decide if he is worth forgiving.
If you are fairly sure your husband has not continuously cheated and this is the first time he has strayed then no, you wouldn't be a fool for trying to save your marriage. Sit down and talk to your husband and hopefully he will agree to go to marriage counseling. Explain to him that the psychologist is not there to blame either spouse, but to give them tools to strengthen their marriage and only there to point out where you are going wrong when communicating with each other. Communication skills and talking about each other's feelings are a necessity in any good marriage. If your husband is constantly cheating then this is a red flag that he will continue to do so and it would be to your best interest to dissolve the marriage and move on in your life.
ANSWER: I wish we could right, but we can't. It's not under the law of marriage. Only through God law. It will be impossible if we can have such case when it comes to our husband's infidelity. All we can do is move on without him or put aside our pride and dignity and work with our relationship.
Yes it's cheating
You move on so to speak and ignor the situation as long as your being taken care.
You would be wise to stay away from this girl and don't take the whole blame because she consented to cheating on her husband. It is better to move forward in your life.
One possible reason is to heal the relationship. In order to move past the hurt, you need to forgive them, but not for their sake, for your own. Meanwhile, you still have to decide whether or not to stay in the relationship and if your partner will change their behavior if you do forgive the infidelity. Another possible reason wives forgive infidility is financial security. Often women do not have the career opportunities or the financial resources of their spouses.
you show her who is in charge and put her in her place
You move to one of the 15 states that have, and recognize, a common law marriage; get married, and then move back. Oregon does not have, or allow, a common law marriage.
If the cheating lover is a woman then men simply do notbeat up their male lover, but have the fortitude to be strong and move on. If it is a male lover cheating the same applies to the female counterpart you do not beat up the male lover and move on from the relationship.
If you know for sure and have proof he is cheating on you then you need to move on and dump him. Find somebody that cares for you as much as you do for them and cheating should not happen again. Don't rely on a friend telling you he is cheating, you need to see it for yourself to be certain.
NO. Divorce is a legal ruling that voids the marriage. The only way you can be divorced is if you contact a lawyer and legally file for one - go through the process and receive a legal divorce decree. THEN it is a Divorce. If you do not have a relationship with your wife any longer, do you want out? Do you want to move out and move on or are you just looking for an excuse to commit adultary? Then call it what it is - infidelity.
ask her and tell her not to lie or you could just breakup with her and move on.