it is harder for white guys to talk to black girls because of the racial barriers my sister is dating a white guy right now and its very possible they are going to get married. the person above me is right. but usually its only in high school and lower, when you reach the college level all the "i have to date this girl" "i have to talk to this group of people" goes out the window. there are no rules, because you are considered adults and your learning things that are not taught and would never be taught in the regular school system. in college you REALLY AND TRULY find out who you are and who you want to be, experimenting is okay. any guy that is uncomfortable is a coward. they are to tied up in what everyone else will think to change then its not worth your time anyways.