Is it necessarily true that those involved with a narcissist have low self-esteem?
No, not at all. Many people get involved with a narcissist not
knowing that they are a narcissist. You can have very high self
esteem when you meet these people. They are cunning charmers and it
can take you quite some time to work out what they're about. In the
process of it all though if you become a victim of the "N"s ways
your self esteem may plummet. You may start to question who you
are. It can chip away at your self esteem before you even realize