Is it normal for your husband to hit you when you make him angry?
No Call 911 --IS IT normal for you to bite him if he upsets you? --WHAT'S NORMAL is far from being good or right, so one would have to base their feelings on what love is, as defined in the Bible:
(1 Corinthians 13:4-7) . . ."Love is long-suffering and kind. Love is not jealous, it does not brag, does not get puffed up, 5 does not behave indecently, does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not keep account of the injury. 6 It does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. 7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." --IF SOMEONE is trying to convince you that it is normal for him to act like that , they have a sick view of life!