Is it normal if I set my wife as priority and always put her first before my family as I took the vows during marriage but from my hearts of hearts I love my sister and brother more than her?

Well you will always love your family no matter what and of course you will love your wife too but try to do things together instead of apart but also try to do things by yourself too like go to the movies on nights you fell romantic and have like dinner with the whole family on nights you fell like you just need to be with them please tell me if you like my answer P.S. yes it is normal