Yes, it is normal. And I am glad to hear that you've never done anything with any of these infatuations. It takes a strong person to resist temptation. So many people these days take their marriage vows far too lightly.
I've been married for almost 20 years and I find myself attracted to some cute younger guy quite often.
Years ago, my husband and I came up with an unconventional solution for dealing with temptation. It has worked for us, but I certainly won't/can't recommend it for everyone.
We decided that the main reason other men or women are tempting is because they are 'forbidden fruit.'And it seems to be human nature to want what we can't have. So we decided to always be honest with each other, first of all. Deception and sneaking aroung break trust, which is hard to regain once lost. We discuss our little 'crushes' openly - like what exactly attracts you to this person, etc. We agreed a long time ago, that if either of us felt tempted to cheat, to tell the other one about it and we'd discuss having a threesome with this person.
I know! Hear me out before calling us immoral or perverted or whatever.
Since we made this agreement, we've talked about different people, and shared fantasies, but neither one of us has ever pursued the threesome option. I seems that - for us anyway - just knowing that the possibility of having our 'crush' exists takes the edge off of the temptation; makes the 'forbidden fruit' a little less forbidden, therefore a little less seductive. (It doesn't hurt that we are both heterosexual, and neither of us relishes a 3some with a member of the same sex!!)
And the resulting fantasies haven't hurt our sex life at all. ;)
Like I said, this solution is definitely not for everyone, in fact, I can easily see how it could backfire. But it's worked for us. We don't get jealous or suspicious of each other, we communicate well, and we don't mind if the other one looks at someone else because we know we can trust each other. In fact, we tease/kid each other by pointing people we think the other one might like.
We've had friends - even siblings - tell us that they are envious of our relationship; that they wish they could have a relationship as good and stable as ours. Sounds ironic, doesn't it?
Nevertheless, as so many men like to point out, you are married, not dead.
Look and fantasize all you want, but don't touch. And if the temptation starts to get to be too much...stop, just for a moment and consider how you would feel if the situation were reversed, if it was your husband who was thinking about cheating. Wouldn't feel too good, eh?
This is a problem that's cause goes back to our earliest ancestors. At different times during your cycle you will be attracted to different types of men. Most of the time you will be attracted to your long term partner, it is likely that he wont have huge muscles or a thick brow. This is an indication that there is a fair amount of the female hormone "eastrogen" in his blood. This means that he should be more enclined to monogomy and generaly take better care of you (important to pregnant cavewomen). When you are approaching your period you will find men with more testosterone (male hormone) much more attractive as they should be more fertile and will have a better chance of giving you a child (cavewomans last chance of getting pregnant that cycle).Interestingly at this point in your cycle you are more enclined to showing a bit of flesh when picking your clothes.
Anyway all completely natural, prewired into your brain and completely out of your control (doesnt mean your husband would like to hear about it though lol)
I have been happily married for nine years and still have great sex with my husband. I love him more than anything and would never cheat on him. But there is a part of me that is curious about how it would feel to have sexual intercourse with other men. At first I felt guilty about having fantasies. But now I realize that fantasizing about other men can be a safe and healthy way to explore your lustful feelings without cheating.
Um.. normal? Perhaps. Right? No it is totally not. That's what is known as a mental affair. Jesus the Christ said that to look on a woman with lust in your heart is the same as adultery. The bottom line is, this is something that must be addressed pronto. If not addressed and corrected, it will lead to marital problems and ultimately divorce.
It is very normal
No body really knows his sexual orientation... It could be gay, bisexual or straight.
Regardless of whether they are men or women, all people at some stage or other will have sexual fantasies. We have sexual fantasies of other people because we have genetically evolved to reproduce from the bes possible and widest variety of stock. Dreaming of this is one way our brain has adapted to achieve this. The evidence is that we don't just choose anyone to partner with. Most of us are selective to some degree. Dreaming of sex with others doesn't mean you don't care for your partner, it just means your body knows it needs to reproduce.
No he is not nobody really knows when he is going to get married but maybe his parents knows but maybe not
nobody knows if jtg married or not.......sorry:(
No one knows. Antoni Gaudí lived in a time when the idea of sexual orientation was unknown and sexual attraction was not spoken of. Gaudí left no writings and never married, but nothing else is known other than the fact that he had been attracted to only one woman, Josefa Moreu, who wasn't interested in him.
No one knows
no one knows for sure
Miley Cyrus is very disappointed in Jamie Lynn. Jamie is not married yet she was engaging in sexual relations with her boy friend. Miley probably knows that you shouldn't get physical with a guy until your married.
Frances Bavier's sexual orientation was never publicized, so no one knows.
I Think Everyone knows that avatar Is not mentally normal....
No, Not necessarily. There is nothing wrong with straight men chatting with gay men. I'm pretty sure he knows what sexual orientation he is, if he is married to a woman, and not a man.
no one knows.