What do you do if you're in love with two people?

Answer 1

Way your pros and cons with both men. One man may have what the other is lacking, for example looks may be in one man and brains may be in the other. Most men that look good does not mean that they are a good catch. You must look beyond the physical. Usually you might just Lust one man. Love is something that is not easy to fall into. Make sure that these men have more on their mind than the physical, and let them also know what it is that you are looking for. To be honest the majority of men do not want to take on the responsiblity of committment... so if one of the men do not want to marry you.... let him go. Dating is intended to get to know someone for marriage. Be careful not to pick the man that likes a woman that is "needed" because as soon as you get on your feet, and he realizes that you do not need him for every move that you make, he may end up dumping you.

Answer 2

You have to step back and let them both go for the time being - you have to be fair to them and yourself. Give yourself some space and time and things will fall into place when you have found what you are searching for. You must know deep down you cannot love one as well as another and expect them to accept that nor will the realization that you may hurt one of them if you are forced to choose - distancing yourself will help you realize if in fact you actually felt that way at all or have been enjoying the attention of 2 that long for you. Be true to yourself.

Answer 3

Relationships are tough.. especially when you can't choose between two attractive men. But you must make the right choice. Choosing can be difficult. Choose the one who is the best to you and best suits your lifestyle. But personality isn't everything. Make sure that his looks are something you can also tolerate.

Answer 4

Yes, you can be in love with as many people as is whole heartedly possible for your soul. Love is not exclusive. Just some ppl can't handle feeling love for two different ppl at the same time even though they want to love both as much as they feel is necessary.

Answer 5

If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one you fell for, because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second one.

Or just simply choose the one who makes you happier.