Is it okay for a 17 years old male to go with a 14 years old female And they having sex is that okay And what if they was in love and they want to have a baby Can anything bad happen to the male?

Don't do it. it's illegal. Especially for you.

There was a few boys at my school ages 13 - 14 and they were playing with a girl on the bus. They all got arrested and went to court. The girl was there friend but she wanted them to get in trouble. They got expelled from the district aswell. Do you want this to happen to you? I think not.