Is it unfair to expect friendship with a man who has a crush on you?
It's best to communicate right off to him how you feel about
this and I always find it best to move on. He feels deeply for you
and you don't feel the same way about him so it would be painful
for him to just be friends with him. It takes smarts like you have
to care enough about this man's feelings to ask this question in
the first place.