Is it wrong for a 16-year-old girl to be in love with a 27-year-old?
Im 16 and with a 27 year old at the moment!! and looks
like we are going to be together for a long time .. am engaged to
him and am totally in love with him!!! so dont worry hun your not
on your own!! and its not wrong!! if you love him go 4 it and dont
worry what other people say and dont let them put you
No, its not wrong because I was 16 when I met my future husband
and he was 28, we have now been together for 8 years, been married
for four and a half years, have two children and we are still going
strong. There is so much you can both learn from each other, and I
think the danger would only arise from the fact that you may not be
emotionally ready to be involved with someone that much older. If
you feel you are, then the only way to find out is to go for it! Im
glad I did!
No, it isn't wrong at all! Just make sure that you don't rule
out guys that are actually attainable.
You can learn some very important things about yourself through
this too. Try to pinpoint what exactly it is about this great guy
that makes you crazy about him. These could be physical, but also
personality-wise too. You can learn what you are drawn to, and
learn to recognize those traits in other people too.
But don't feel like you're committing some horrible sin or
anything, what you are feeling is completely natural. Feelings are
never right or wrong, they are simply there. So, it is useless to
worry whether or not a feeling is right or wrong. What is right or
wrong is your action, your response to the feeling.
Yes, that's not right. It's not love, it's infatuation. The
outlook a 16 year old and a 27 year old have on life is completely
different. They will not have common ground, and nothing to build a
relationship off of. Bad idea.
: There is someone for everyone. If you like older men, and you
consider how kind he is, and he makes you laugh, you can be alright
with it. There are laws about under eighteen, but if you can get by
that, you have something that may be hard to find for other
"Oh_please,_person_above_the_person_above_me.">Oh please, person
above the person above me.
Sweetie, there's nothing wrong with being in love with someone
older than you. My boyfriend's 20 and I'm 15! While you really
should aim for people in your age group, it's not like it's a total
sin. That's an 11 year age difference, but who cares? When you find
someone you truly care about and it's someone who puts your
feelings before theirs and vice versa, there's absolutely nothing
wrong with it! So good luck!