If your boyfriend has anger problems can he be abusive?

Answer 1

They can be but some of them can control their anger.

The potential for violence is many times greater, (100x or more), with someone who is angry than with someone who is not.

Violence is always caused by anger, especially when it is used against someone who is not threatening voilence themselves, (such as a girlfriend/spouse)

Answer 2

Can you forgive him? - yes. Should you forgive him? - for your own peace of mind - again - yes.

Should you excuse him and get back with him? NO.Forgiveness does NOT obligate you to get back with him nor does it require you not to hold him accountable for his abuse. Forgiveness means that you bear him no ill will and can genuinely wish for him to be happy. That kind of forgiveness can be healing to the soul.

Usually it is best to forgive but move on to someone who is NOT abusive. If for some reason you decide to give him another chance, at least wait until he has shown over a prolonged period of time that he has changed - "prolonged period" usually being years, not days, weeks or months - and has done something that shows he has invested heavily in making fundamental changes, such as getting therapy or counseling and making restitution for the harm he has caused. Some initially abusive men WILL change, but they are sadly very uncommon. The more severe and prolonged the abuse, the less likely they are to be in that rare group who truly change. Abuse can range from being rude and inconsiderate and deliberately embarrassing you (still abuse that you should not have to put up with) to beating and/or threatening your life (which you should report to the authorities to protect yourself and any past and potential future victims).

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NO! Any type of abuse is not acceptable, especially when in a relationship. it is extremely dangerous as well which can lead to suicide, don't let your boy friend abuse you its time to move on.

Answer 3

See the attached link for information on Domestic Violence and Abuse