Is there a safe fruit you can stick in your vagina?
peeled bananas go ok.
at the top of the vagina will be a button that is the clitoris that can be fiddled with to stimulate her when fingering[ if you don't want to penetrate. directly below is a small hole [to small to stick anything in] this is where a woman pees ,i cant remember what its called. below that and above the anus is the vagina opening that is where you finger and stick "it" in.