Ok how do you get your ex-boyfriend to want you even though your not sure you'll take him back?

you act like you dont want him , and he will come back to you but just play hard to get and he will keep trying to get back with you but after a while you can tell him yes and just watch how nice he will be to you Let him see you happily going out with another man. That is the old "one wants what one cannot have". For some reason it just makes you that much more attractive.