One way is to look at their butt. Lift them up so their back is facing you. Lift their tail up. There will be 2 holes there. If it looks like a colon, it is a male. If it looks like a semi-colon, its a girl. Another way is to see if it has a bump below the butthole. If it does, it is a male. If it has a hole below the butthole, it's a female. Hope this helps. :)
the boys have what looks like to little furl balls in between two holes. one under is for spraying which will not happen is he is fixed, then there is the potty hole at the top. the females have two holes, one potty hole and a birth and mating hole. female to the far side male on the near side.
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There are many sites available on the internet containing images that can help you differentiate between male and female cats.
just look it up but if they are very young you might not be able to tell
This is going to sound gross but, gently massaging the kittens bum with a warm q tip would help.
If the kitten has a mother the mother will help the kitten naturally, if not you might have to take a warm cloth and wipe the kitten's bum. That's how mother cats get them to go, the lick their bums
Yes, but it may be ideal to help with the feeding using a kitten formula and bottles supplied by a vet. Mother cats have 6 nipples, so feeding 9 kittens without help could be very challenging for her.
If you mean the sister as the kitten then no. But, if it is the nursing queen's sister, then I would suggest keeping the sister away. If the queen's sister feeds them she might think of it as her own kitten. And also don't try to let the queen's sister feed them for no reason, unless she runs out of milk
Unfortunately, there's not anything you can do about that. All female cats move their kittens; they're trying to hide them and keep them from harm. The most you can do is keep an eye on them and try to keep the kittens from getting hurt. But I wouldn't worry too much.
You can clean out as soon as she is through giving birth to her kittens. It should be changed daily. This will help to keep every one clean and healthy. Be sure to put the Momma Cat on Kitten food as she needs to make lots of milk for her kittens so she could use the kitten food as long as she needs to nurse them.
Your veterinarian will have the appropriate medications to deworm the kitten. Some over the counter medications are useless and could do more harm than help.
How often kittens pee will depend on the kitten and how much food and drink it has had. However, it is important to note that very young kittens are unable to urinate on their own. They need their mother to help them with this or they can become very ill.
Kittens bite not to hurt but to play. Kittens, especially those who have come away from their mother too young (6-8 weeks old; the ideal age is 12 weeks old) will play rough. Kittens usually bite when they're playing, trying to get your attention or warning you not to do something. For example if you scratch or rub your cats lower back he or she might bite you to tell you they do not like you doing that or just isn't in the mood for it. The best things to do is to learn your kitten's behaviour, especially how he or she acts when he or she's about to bite. Refrain from playing with the kitten with your hands and use toys instead. When your kitten bites, you can either try and distract her attention with a toy, or make your hand or arm completely limp. A kitten will quickly grow bored of unmoving "prey" and will let go. Ignoring the kitten for a few minutes afterwards will also help. Kittens love attention, so a kitten will quickly learn that biting, scratching and other behaviours will get it ignored - so will stop such behaviour. NEVER hit your cat; this will just make it fearful of you. Cats respond poorly to negative reinforcement.
You need to get your kitten to a veterinarian immediately. To transport, gently slide the kitten onto a towel - having two people for this will help greatly. Your goal is to keep the head, neck and shoulders steady without moving them. Once the kitten is on the towel, slide your hands underneath it and place the kitten/towel onto two to four bath towels nestled in a laundry basket. Now the kitten can be carried in the laundry basket and taken to the veterinarian. If the kitten is still walking or holding its head up, you can skip the towel under kitten transfer, but still drive with the kitten nestled in a laundry basket. If the kitten is still nursing, bring the mother and the rest of the kittens along for the ride in a second basket or box.
You have to take over, feeding them and providing a home if they are homeless. The pleasure you and your family will get from watching them play together will be more than adequate payment for your care and concern.
Yes, it is not impossible for a cat to become pregnant at five months old. Most kittens reach sexual maturity around six months old. Due to this, it is best to spay a kitten around this time, especially if she has her first season at such a young age, as she is just a kitten herself. It would be incredibly dangerous (and possibly fatal) for her and any unborn kittens if she were allowed to get pregnant.