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Should a woman divorce her compulsive lying husband after 30 years?


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2005-10-04 20:58:24
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If you've put up with it for 30 years there has got to be some other good qualities to this "good old boy!" You have to decide if you are angry over a culmination of problems in your marriage and you've finally boiled over, or, you're having a weak moment. Most men (and women) can lie about small things. For example: I asked my husband to tell his friend to call me with information I asked for. When my husband got home I asked him if he told this guy and my husband said he had. Well, my husband lied! I didn't get too upset because I know he didn't do it intentionally, but men will lie over the smaller things in life rather than deal with confrontation. If your husband lies about important things or is cheating, then yes, by all means ... get rid of the old goat! Good luck Marcy


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Compulsive lying is when you cannot stop lying, so you lie almost whenever you can.

It is when you can't stop lying, even if you don't want to lie.A compulsive liar is someone who can't resist lying, even when there is no reson to.

There are not medications specifically for compulsive lying. However, compulsive lying is usually a symptom of other underlying psychiatric issues, some of which may require medications. Sometimes just interacting with a councilor or therapy can cause a noticeable improvement with the problem.

Psychiatrists, psychologists, clinical social workers, and other mental health personnel use the term 'compulsive lying' when they refer to people who cannot control their lying, that is, people who feel compelled to lie and are aware that they are lying. Therefore, compulsive lying implies impaired ability to control it. The term 'compulsive lying' is not a diagnosis. It is a behavior or a symptom associated with a number of mental disorders [for example, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder]. The term "confabulation" is used to describe lying or invention when the person who is lying is not aware that they are lying. To be more specific, confabulation is treating a fantasy as a fact, without awareness that fantasy has replaced fact."

it depends. if it was something big then possibly, but if it is not then no. -nickii Yes. If a spouse does not respect you enough to always be honest, you do not have a marriage, in my opinion. Why continue? -IAenvoy

compulsive lying is a disease. you should go to your doctor they have medication for this situation now... And when you start believing your own lies and can not stop telling a lie that means you need to talk to you doctor, It is confidential...and doctors are great.... they will take care of you....

Because they cant stop lying!

A compulsive liar is defined as someone who lies out of habit. Lying is their normal and reflexive way of responding to questions. Compulsive liars bend the truth about everything, large and small. For a compulsive liar, telling the truth is very awkward and uncomfortable while lying feels right. Compulsive lying is usually thought to develop in early childhood, due to being placed in an environment where lying was necessary. A compulsive liar may also have difficulties with poor self esteem. For the most part, compulsive liars are not overly manipulative and cunning, rather they simply lie out of habit - an automatic response which is hard to break and one that takes its toll on a relationship. A compulsive liar may have difficulties with poor self esteem.

No, lying out of fear is not compulsive lying. It may be a compulsion, but that's a normal reaction; a defense mechanism. If you lie out of fear, it is justified, therefore *not* driven by a compulsion. Compulsive lying is an actual disorder, characterized by the pathalogical liar telling fibs without motivation, often telling wildly exaggerated stories and appearing to honestly believe them to be true.

If she is a true friend, you should not tell her husband that she is cheating. You should do everything you can to help her keep it a secret from her husband, including lying for her. Real friends are a rarity.

Go get help. Get counseling and figure out why you lie.

A liar A compulsive liar or a pathological liar. if it's a physiological disorder, a pathological and compulsive lying then the person is a mythomaniac.

First of all, pathalogical lying is different to compulsive or habitual lying, in the sense that there is the added feeling that they always need to spread lies to either feel okay through false ego validations or avoidance of ego invalidation. Compulsive or habitual lying may have the same motives but lack the degree of need to use deception as a means of coping with the fears of judgment from others and themselves. Pathalogical lying becomes a way of living, where compulsive lying becomes a way of avoiding perceived upcoming threats of self-esteem (this includes lying to gain attention).

There is no easy way to get true compulsive liars to stop lying. Many compulsive behaviors are symptoms of deeper mental disorders and may require professional counseling and/or medication to treat the problem.

Well first of all, if your boyfriend or husband is lying to you, the best thing to do is break up or divorce with him. And you can always lie back.

Yes, I do it all the time, so do lots of adders.

She should! that dirtbag lying, cheating washed up piece of crap

Though compulsive lying is not considered a genetic disorder, it is a psychiatric illness. Compulsive liars actually take pleasure in this agbnormal entity and it feels right to them. Telling the truth, on the other hand, is very difficult and uncomfortable. This disorder is addictive and very hard to stop. Also, t make this more complicated, there is usually an underlying personality disorder. Compulsive lying can only be dealt with through aggressive counseling and therapy. However, for therapy to be successful, the patient must be able to admit that they do have a problem.

Compulsive lying, or pathological lying, is a common disorder often caused by low self-esteem and a need for attention. Often, the liar does not realize how often he or she is lying because it becomes second nature. Compulsive lying alienates friends and loved ones and often brings about the opposite of what the liar wants: instead of getting the attention they often crave, they end up pushing people away. With therapy, many people can overcome their compulsion to lie and salvage their interpersonal relationships before it is too late.

Talk to him and tell him that you don't like it when he is lying. If he wants your relationship to work, you and him should build it on trust and honesty. If he lies, you will lose your trust on him, and it may ruin the harmony of your relationship.

You don't, get out while you can. A relationship like that is doomed like the Titanic!!!

Truth is what people get and give when there inlove! There are NO LIES in true love!!

When you catch your husband lying then try to get him to face up to it to you. Hopefully you have proof of his lying and if you do show it to him or, tell him where you got the information from. Even with proof if he tries to say he is not lying let him know that if he does not stop lying; mature and learn to communicate with you better that the marriage will not last.

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