Should you ask a girl out if she likes you but you are not sure if you like her?

You shouldn't toy with a girls emotions like that... girls have it really hard and the girl will get excited and when you realize you don't like her in that way, you're going to end up hurting her.

Okay It's probably not the best idea to ask her out immediately. Spend some time with her, get to know her, and if you're still not sure, then ask her out but keep it very very casual and don't get serious about your relationship until you know that you like her back. If you keep it very casual and you decide you aren't attracted to each other, then you let her off very easy and make sure she knows that you still like her as a person and don't ignore her after that. But don't be a tease and mess with people. Don't jump into anything until you're ready.

Don't Tease

If you're not sure if you like her then why would you date her? To kill time? That girl's feelings would be hurt and she'd be crushed and devastated. Everything changes if you do like her. Just make sure you're faithful to her, don't play with her heart. "A girl's heart is the most fragile thing a person can come across."


If you are not sure you like the person, then don't ask them out. It's as simple as that. Dating for fun isn't usually a great idea, because your date will usually be able to tell that your affection for them isn't genuine. Date only when you know that you like the person. "Maybe" or "not sure" are not good enough answers.

No Way

NEVER ask someone out just because they like you, both of you will end up getting hurt. Don't ask her unless your sure you will enjoy being with her. If you didn't and end up stopping it after say a week you wont like what this girl might do or say! I can guarantee you.

Why Even Ask This?

Umm, NO! That is totally using her. Especially if she really likes you. What goes around comes around darling. You use her and one day some girl you adore might do the same.

Definetly Not!

No! you shouldn't. If the girl really likes you, and your not sure if you like her, but you say you do, you could be crushing her! She probubly has some serious feelings about you. The best thing to do, would be to wait it out. Get to know her more, and then see if your interested in her.



No, but are you even slightly attracted to her? It is wrong to lead someone on and it may come to bite you in the butt later. I think you need to be honest with her, whatever you decide to do. You could ask her to the movies or to dinner some time and then just take it from there. Maybe just hanging out to see if anything comes from it, if your feelings for her stay the same, you need to let her know that. She may be hurt, but she will appreciate your honesty. No one deserves to be lied to.


NO! you'll just hurt her


YES!!!! i asked a girl out that liked me and i didnt like her that much... BUT now i like her ALOT. (the year before i was her enemy. now were good friends)

i think you lot are being a bit harsh you might as well ask her out cos you might grow to like her and well in the mean time... but that's only if you're ok with being known as a player