It depends on how solid your relationship is or if the both of you have been on some type of vacation. Put it this way, I wouldn't be too thrilled if I hadn't had a holiday in a couple of years and my husband wanted to go on a holiday with his buddy and it has nothing to do with jealousy. It's a matter of being considerate of your mate. If you trust your mate then there is no reason two buddies can't go on holidays, but I do think 2 weeks is really stretching it and why couldn't you go along? I would sit down and talk to your mate in a calm manner and tell him that you aren't too pleased about him going away for two weeks and couldn't they shorten this holiday. Only you know how much you can trust your mate. If you are having problems in your relationship then I would be concerned about him going away for those 2 weeks. If he has given you no reason to mistrust him then I would back off and let the two go together. It's really no different than myself going away with another girlfriend for two weeks. Would I? Nope! I like to share certain things with my husband, so I'd probably go away for one week, come home and do something else with my husband. I think that's fair. Good luck Marcy
yes you should
Tell him he's being an a hole and that it's upsetting you and you have no room in your life for people that upset you, friend or boyfriend.
step up your game with him, show him who he wants to be with...........my opinion
Just try talking to the friend. Explain that you don't like their boyfriend & be sure to explain why. Whatever you do, do NOT try to interfere or get someone else to interfere. Just talk to your friend & try not to upset them.
I would let my friend know about whats going on , and what her boyfriend has been doing. Friends are suppost to be there for each other , and i know if my friend hid something like that from me i would be pretty upset. So i would tell your friend of what you've been aware of.
tell her if it is her ex then she probably dont have feelings for him any more and you should just tell her she will be way more upset if she finds out from someone else because she will think you dont trust heryou would tell your friend that you like her x boyfriend and you would tell him who do you love the most from your heart
I think it means that you still have feelings for your ex boyfriend. If you didn't care about your ex boyfriend you would not mind if he dated a close friend of yours. It may also be that you are threatened by your close friend and may be a tad jealous of her.
welll...is your friend upset? ...if so. wait ...if not, talk to him about it.
You should ask her why she's upset.
Yes. Normally you should tell a close friend.
You should tell your friend that you want to work out the problem. Sit down just you and him/her and ask what made them upset? Really listen to what they are saying and hear them out. Once you know what went wrong you can try to work on how to fix it. If your friend is really close to you then he/she should want to discuss it and work it out.
you know if he keeps doing just to get your attention, and if you get mad and upset then it means your jealous
definetly if not you'll only get yourself upset or even depressed she'll either be ok about it or she might even suprise you an have feelings back. if she tells you to get lost then shes not worth it, an not a good friend AT ALL !! hope this helped :)
Tell him everything will be okay , well depending on what he is upset about.
Depending on what he's done, yes you should. If you're upset about something that your boyfriend has done it's always good to let him know so then he hopefully won't do it again.
No, it is completely normal. It's called jealousy. I feel it too, even if the girl is my best friend or a really good friend.
TALK TO HIM AND FIND OUT WHY!!!! he's probably not upset for no reason. help him to open up with you
If he goes with you, no; if he goes with another girl, dump him. But if you don't know the other girl find out who she was. She might have been a relative that needed an escort at the last minute, or an old friend of the family.
This is just a guess, but it was your friend's birthday and maybe you took center stage. This is supposed to be a friend, though. You ought to be able to ask -- nicely -- if you did something to upset her and apologize if you should. Good friends are hard to find!
kiss him lightly on the cheek it will make him somewhat better
Well personally i think she is not a good friend and you should tell her how you feel and you should kick him in the private parts. --------------------------------------- Responder: Tiny_Sandwich But to directly answer your question, yes. Yes you should be upset, and angry/betrayed, but even if you do feel that way that doesn't mean later on down the road you guys can make up and become friends again. Don't necessarily burn all your bridges
The right thing to do is not go out with him. If you do you can make your friend upset. Tell this boy you can't date him and if he likes you, he will understand. The best thing to do is to tell your friend he likes you and then tell her you already said no.
You cannot expect her to accept that, she is going to be upset and chances are you will not be friends for some time if again at all.
When your friend doesn't invite you to a party you will naturally be upset and wonder why. What you should do is ask your friend why they didn't invite you, only then will you be able to decide on a course of action.