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No. What you should do is either hire a detective to get hardcore evidence or be the detective yourself. Get pictures and proof. You will need it in case you divorce your cheating husband. Calling the other woman will only stir things up, she can deny it and you won't have any proof. Your husband will be tipped off that you suspect him and he will be more careful which will make it harder for you to catch him and get evidence. Think like a woman who is going to clean up in a divorce, would that woman spoil her chances of getting everything she wants in a divorce? Hi there - Are you positive about the other_____? Then I would agree with who had advised you to hire someone - IF your able to afford that service...and on the other hand....ARE you sure you want it to be confirmed from a stranger? Or be ahead of the game and you leave the house early one morning or even better tell him your going away with the girlfriends for a weekend and then stay at a motel close to your home and rent a car and follow him around for the weekend. JUst be sure you know what you want and how you will deal with what you find out...cause if your not ready for the truth...then you better sit down and think about you first - how its really going to affect you....I really FEEL for you at what your mind and heart must be going through!!

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Q: Should you call the person you suspect is cheating with your spouse?
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What is Cheatin?

" Cheating" is when you sleep or had sex who is not your spouse. And sometimes you fell in love with this person who is not your spouse..

What is considered cheating?

Cheating is when you are in a relationship with another person and see someone else behind your mate's back. Not making love with your partner is a form of cheating. Titillating phone calls to another person is also cheating. Chatlines, IMing some other person and getting personal is cheating. ANSWER: Cheating is when a married man or woman kissing the other person on the lips, but if that person kiss the other woman or the other man on a cheek that is not cheating, like how we kiss our parents, sibling or our own family. It's about not telling the spouse who he or she is seeing even for an hour or so. It's about having a private date just the two of them, without telling the spouse. If he or she are eating out but with the group of friends, that is not cheating. Cheating is about going to see his or her friends at home without the spouse knowledge. It's about calling the other person so often and not telling the spouse. It's about making out wirth that other person without the knowledge of the spouse. There are lots of reason when it comes to cheating.

What does it mean when your mate accuses you of cheating?

Cheating is an intimate relationship with a person other than your partner or spouse.

How do you find a cheating spouse?

Finding out if your spouse is cheating on you is usually not very difficult, but you should conduct your investigation in a very careful manner. You do not want to tip your spouse off that you suspect anything, as he or she will then try even harder to hide the affair, which will make it more difficult for you to find proof of it. Also, your suspicions may be false, and, if this is the case, you do not want to make your spouse feel unjustly accused. However, even if there is no cheating going on, your having suspected it may indicate that all is not well with your marriage, and that there are issues that should be addressed before things get worse. There is far more to the issue of martial infidelity than most people suspect. There is an excellent free email course that has a lot of good advice about how to go about finding a cheating spouse, and about how to deal with the situation if you do find that cheating is going on. I highly recommend this course. You can sign up for it at:

What should you do if your spouse is cheating?

Just wrong and deserve the boot!!

Should you give a cheating spouse a second chance?

That depends on you

Should you expose a narcissist to their spouse if they are having an affair with your spouse?

Just because this person is a narcissist doesn't make then much different than anyone else cheating with your spouse and you should be more concerned about your spouse cheating. By all means sit down with the narcissists spouse and tell the whole story, but be sure you have absolute proof before doing so. Don't be surprised if the narcissist's spouse becomes angry and is denial, but, in time the spouse will become to believe it.

Should you Contact the cheating spouse mistress?

Probably not, you should let the cheating spouse know that you know he's cheating though! If you want answers, you can contact the mistress to get the truth... although she may just direct you back to your spouse and tell you to talk to him (to avoid confrontation).

Is it considered cheating if your spouse chats with other woman on a chat line on his cell phone?

No it should not be considered cheating.

What do you do when cheating on someone?

You should NOT being cheating on anyone. The above is correct. Stop now. Either with the "other" or the "spouse".

Is cheating lying?

ANSWER: Absolutely, if a person is not cheating nor seeing another person, there's nothing to lie about. But cheating on your spouse and he or she doesn't know you are betraying your partner that will be lying because your keeping secret.

Can spouse sue person your spouse is cheating with?

I don't think they can sue you but, they can get affairs and divcores.

What do you do with your finances when your spouse is cheating?

Ask them if this is really what they want. You or other person.. Be truthfully to you and yourself..

Your spouse is still cheating with the same woman what does this mean?

It means you should leave them.

Should you confront a cheating spouse?

If an individual has proof their mate is cheating then they should always confront their cheating partner, but have proof. When someone who cheats knows it's wrong (and it is) and confesses to their partner they did cheat then that person deserves another chance, but when you have to catch the mate who is cheating they will most likely cheat again and it's time for you to move on.

Does cheating spouse affect ones couth?

I have had a real bad experience when it comes to relationship.... it was really a bad moment when i found out my ex is cheating on me..... thanks to the help of phackers483 @ gmail.... reddit introduce me to him and i seek his service to get to know what is going behind my relationship... i was really glad to know the truth and was able to stay away from bad relationship

Dream your spouse is cheating?

It is very common when a marriage has some problems that one spouse is worried the marriage will fail and they become extremely stressed about it and may suspect their spouse is cheating. When one sleeps the brain is still active and all people dream every half hour to release the stress of the day, but most of people do not remember their dreams as they are in full REM sleep. It is the first few moments when a person wakes up (it seems longer than a few moments) that they will remember a dream or a nightmare. The best thing you can do is choose a quiet evening with your spouse and calmly (without accusing them) that you had a dream that they were cheating. Your spouse will not be upset because they know it's just a dream to them, but watch for body language and facial expressions. If you feel there is a chance your spouse is cheating then ask them right out. If they deny it and you are still sure they are cheating your only two options is to have a friend with a car and the two of you follow your spouse or, hire a detective for the days your spouse is not around.

What does it mean when your husband always accuses you of cheating?

Often the person who protests loudly that their spouse is cheating could be cheating themselves and feeling guilty they are trying to deny what they are doing by accusing their spouse. You have the choice of sitting down with your husband and asking him to prove you are cheating and if he cannot he should drop it as you are getting tired of defending yourself. If this does not work then you both should seek marriage counseling. Sometimes husbands that have grown up in an environment where one or both parents cheated; or they have been cheating on by one or more women in their past may cause him to feel he should cheat first rather than wait for his spouse to cheat on him.

Should a person begin to think their spouse is having an affair if they make a person feel invisible and constantly give hateful answers and degrading looks at their spouse?

Not necessarily. An affair doesn't always cause the spouse to be mean like that. A marraige that is falling apart would cause that. When a spouse is cheating, the last thing they want to do is be mean and suspicious. They want to act normal and even nice so the other doesn't suspect anything. For your marraige: time for counceling. If you want to save this marraige, make an appointment and go (if your spouse wont go, then go alone to see what you can do to save the marraige).

Is it legally cheating if you are legally separated?

First, "cheating" is not a legal term. It is slang that refers to a married person being unfaithful to their legal spouse or partner. A legal separation is not a legal divorce. Having an intimate relationship with someone other than your legal spouse is adultery. If you wish to do that legally you should get a divorce.

How should a caught cheating wife act towards their spouse?

She should shut up and listen to whatever he says.

What does it mean if you dream that your spouse is cheating on you and you murder the person they cheated on you with?

It means you are probably on too much meds, and your wife is probably cheating on you because you are weird. K

You have found out someone cheated on spouse visa what should you do now?

Your question is a bit complex but if you want to know what you need to do because you found out a spouse is having an affair and you know the other spouse, you need to talk to the person who is cheating to stop because of your friend. If this spouse don't listen to your plea, then tell him or her that you will talk to his or her spouse. That is all you can do. The rest will be them to work things out.

Is it cheating if you are legally married?

ANSWER: I don't understand your question about cheating, so I will guess and bare with me here. If you are married and having affair with the other person who is not your spouse, yes we call it cheating and in the eyes of God, it is adultery.

Why does your spouse constantly tease that you are cheating?

Your spouse teasing you or not talking is common. They are feeling left out as you are cheating on someone else.