Should you let your son wear girls underwear?

Answer 1

This was a very good answer.

Some points of clarification:

• This is quite normal and is not a sickness
• Many young boys and men have the same fascination with female scent and underclothes. It is part of our primal programming.
• It is good to let him know that it is not appropriate to seek his mothers panties. When he gets older and is in relationship so he can ask his partners permission.
• Many of the powerful men in history have had a fascination with womens clothing. They are not gay. It is their balance point for their strong male energy. J Edgar Hoover is one example.

AnswerYou sit down with him, with his father, if possible and explain to him that you understand his curiosity and if he has any questions to ask. You also explain to him that this is not healthy and that he needs to find other ways to satisfy his curiosity. Talk to a health professional and ask them what is the best way to help him out. If he doesnt understand where you are coming from get him to a doctor. Get some books from the library on sexual feelings. Also, for now, put your panties somewhere else so that the temptation isn't there for him. Dont get down about this, Im sure your not the only parent that has this happen.

Answer 2

Hi Im a 33m when I was a teen my older sis would dress me up. I didnt tell her I liked it but I did. When I was about 20 or so my mom caught me masturbating while wearing her things. She is OK with it she even has bought me some of my own things. But we talked about it and why I was wearing her things. Talking is the best I think. If that doesn't work, talk with a therapist. A surprising number of heterosexual men enjoy wearing women's clothing, so don't jump to any conclusions. The most important thing for the boy is knowing that Mom still loves him. If necessary, Mom should also talk to a therapist!

Answer 3

At that age, a boy has become interested in sex, and has very little opportunity to learn or even to ask about it. He is likely to do such things as this just to see how it makes him feel. Don't make too much of it. He is probably already embarrassed enough that he wouldn't benefit by any further punishment.

Answer 4

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LOVE HIM ANYWAY. You don't have to "do" anything. He's not hurting anyone by dressing up and if you even ask him about it you could damage his psyche. Just leave it alone and he will either grow out of it or not. Either way, you are his parent and need to show him the love and support that every child deserves.

If your son likes to wear girls clothes then let him do so as it is his decision and there choice of style, just encorage them even if that means getting them a wardrobe of their own and if you are the only person who knows don't tell other people until your son is ready to tell

Let him know that he may not have a lot of straight friends. Cross dressing intimidates other boys and usually disgusts grown up women. Even if he is in the majority (most cross dressers do it to please a woman in their life) most heterosexual woman won't be in to it and most think that you're somehow not 100% man. The best he could hope for would be a homosexual coupling with an other cross dresser.

Answer 5

First, the act of sniffing panties is harmless. Many teenage boys do it though most return the panties when finished with them. Definitely deal with the stealing. Dishonesty should not be tolerated. You might consider having father talk with him. on the side, about making sure to always return them such that women in the house are not alerted to his activities. This may be controversial, but I think it's the best course given the fact that he's not likely to stop.

Answer 6

Here is what you do if your son wears woman clothes:

Let him do what he loves.

Love him anyway.

Talk it out with him

Take him to a thrift store and let him pick out an outfit or two let him try it on in the store and tell him when and where he can wear it.

Get him some make up, high-heels, wig, bra, panties, bra snuffers, and other female stuff purse etc... and let him put that stuff on and take him for a walk outside.

Let him wear your clothes and fake boobs through the house

Answer 7

haft lay down the law and encourage if not force him to stop. Do not nurture this habit that is the worst thing you can do.

Oh come on. Would you freak out if your daughter wore boyshorts? Jeans with a fly in the front? Perhaps wore a sports sweatshirt with the name of a male athlete and number on the back? Panties are just clothing. Wearing them does not magically change the boy into something different. But...and this is the possibility that you should check out unemotionally, was the boy different already before he had the desire to wear panties? Crossdressers are born, not made.

Answer 8

Nothing. Men in Scotland wear skirts all the time. They are called kilts. Say nothing to him and if he is making a nonverbal statement about how he sees himself it may be worth a discussion on why he wears it, but take it easy and be calm, considerate, and respectful.

Answer 9

Yes you should, it makes you more attractive.