If you can truly forgive, it makes it much easier to put it out of your mind and move on - worth considering. But I agree with your other point: Never go back into a relationship with that person again.
If he is still cheating then you are enabling his behavior and you should be controlling the situation and not letting your husband control the situation. If he cheated and it is over then he may be tired of you bringing up the subject and feels he will never live it down and you will never forgive him. You both should have gone to a marriage counselor for help and it is still not too late. If he continues to be agitated and is still cheating on you then you need to take control and at least go for a separation in order to give yourself a chance to know if you really want to stay in this marriage and the same applies if you are not sure you can ever forgive him for cheating even though he may have ended the affair.
Maybe. He could be joking around or cheating. Try talking to these girls and finding out. Though if he is your boyfriend, you should have 100% trust otherwise the relationship isn't worth it.
You don't - it sounds as though he may be using you for what he wanted.
Are you keeping this a secret? Would your partner be hurt by this news? Would you feel ashamed if your friends and family knew about this? If the answer to these is YES, then YES it's cheating.
If they love you they would not have cheated.
You are to keep no records of wrongs, but it isn't humanly possible to not forget a wrongdoing. We should all strive to though.
Probably not, you should let the cheating spouse know that you know he's cheating though! If you want answers, you can contact the mistress to get the truth... although she may just direct you back to your spouse and tell you to talk to him (to avoid confrontation).
With having ADD, your chances of cheating on your partner do increase slightly.ALong with that, though, I do have to say that cheating is not something that can be blamed on ADD. Your ADD does not make you cheat, you choose to cheat. Therefor, yes, ADD does slightly impact the chances of you cheating. But it's not the total reason, or is it something that you should blame your cheating on.
whatever you do don't make him pick between you, his girlfriend, and his friends who hapen to be girls without finding out if he is actually cheating on you or not. if he is cheating on you though dump him immediately!
There are two Important aspects to forgive someone. 1. You must forgive. You should forgive even though that person isn't sorry, and pray for them continuously. If a wife divorces her husband because he abused her, she should pray and forgive him. When you forgive, it's like taking a step towards heaven. It says in the bible, Peter asks, "How much should I forgive? As much as seven times?" And Jesus replies, "Not just seven times, but seventy seven times..." This is just something to think about and put into practice. Not literally "I forgive you" seventy seven times, but it means to forgive and mean it. 2. How much that person needs the forgiveness. Everyone needs forgiveness. And God is the one who gives it if no one else does. That doesn't mean if someone says "I forgive you", your sin is gone. you still have to confess it by going to confession.
Just be patient with her because trust is the biggest thing that will keep a relationship strong. Don't get me wrong though, if she keeps talking to him like everyday, then you should dump her immediately before you find out the hard way that she might be cheating.
That depends. How big is his man member, if you know what I mean ;) ;) ;) Seriously though, send pics.