Should you take your Ex-boyfriend back?

Answer 1

As much as I am a firm believe in an ex being an ex for a reason, it all depends on the situation and the circumstances surrounding the breakup in the first place. No two stories are the same and only you can make that call. Settling is never a good thing, but if the good out weighs the bad, then maybe it's worth a short.

Answer 2

I used to be a hard core cheater. What changed me was when I cheated on someone I loved more than anything. It ruind our relationship. I guess that was the only way I could learn from it. I have never cheated to this day. If you love your ex and they love you..do anything to get the relationship back. Cheaters have no control of they're cheating, it's an addiction. Tell them that if they do it one more time--it's over for good even though it might not be. Nason..I love you sooo much. nobody could ever replace you.

Answer 3

why shouldn't you? i believe in 3 stricks and your out. like officially cut off. what's wrong with going back out with your ex? i think it's fine theres nothing wrong trust me

Answer 2: The person became your ex for a reason. MOVE ON and chart a new future for yourself. Be happy in your future free of drama from an ex.

Answer 4

If the ex was psychologically or physically abusive, you should not resume the relationship. Oftentimes, an abusive person will break up with a partner and then will attempt to resume the relationship because the abuser wants to continue to control that person. An abusive person will wait for his/her former partner to get over the breakup and get on with his/her life, oftentimes the former victim has a new significant other. The abuser contacts the victim, disrupts the victims life again and demands that the victim give up new friends, jobs and any other independence that has been attained. This is all in exchange for resuming a relationship with the abuser. When the victim complies, the abuser is on his best behavior for a while. Then the cycle of abuse starts again once he has his partner dependent and socially isolated. Breaking up and reconciliation with occur as many times as the victim will allow it to happen.

Answer 5

no, because you obviously broke up for a reason, if he is your ex it should stay that way

actually that isnt true, if you guys were right for eachother then you should go back to him. Maybe breaking up was right at that time but that doesnt mean forever. i am an ex of someone i truly loved and i wish for him back every day.....go back to him if you feel its right because love is a crazy thing but the worste that can happen is u learn from your mistakes -issy<3

Answer 6

NO! NEVER! You should defiantly NOT take your ex back AFTER he cheated on you . I really liked this guy , he's 1 grade older than me. He asked me out, I said yes . Next thing you know , he cheats on me with a girl named Samantha . He wanted me back , I thought he wouldn't cheat on me again , turns out , he did. I LOVED this guy , his name is Brandon . I was so stupid enough to take him back so many times !! I REGRET it !!! Me and him would break up , get back together , break up get back together , just over and over AGAIN ! We dated about 15 times? We started dating since 4th grade all the way till I was in 7th grade . It took so long to get over Brandon , I still sorta love him , I just .....miss him . But now I know NOT to go back out with him ever again . He went to this a different high school , I went to a different high school than him . I've not seen him since , I miss him very much . I will never forget BRANDON HILL <3 <3 see? see all these things that happen?? Don't take your ex back after he cheated on you, what makes you think he WON'T cheat on you again?? Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater . Date him once than forget him , no NEED to be dating him so many times like I dated Brandon Lol . There will be OTHER guys <3 !! Like now instead of Brandon , I'm in love with a guy named Jeremiah Johnson <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 I don't like Brandon or I mean love Brandon anymore , because now ...... I found Jeremiah <3 <3 <3 <3 So I'm telling you , DO NOT take you ex back if he cheated on you MORE than once . You're just gonna get your heart broken over and over again . That's not the best thing to do obviously .

Answer 7

Personally, I think no because if he cheated on you once, then he can cheat on you again. That being said, every relationship is different, and the reason/reasons why he cheated on you are different. You just need to talk it out with him.

Also consider, if he's really worth it, even when he chose someone else over you and hurt you.

But generally, unless he's some super fantastic guy that comes around once in a life time, you probably shouldn't get back together. Or at least wait to see if he's interested in other girls.

Answer 8

If you ex boyfriend was not mentally or physically abusive and not overly jealous and you just split-up over differences, try dating him (no commitments at first to dating steady) and hopefully both of you have matured. People do change as they start getting older and getting more of a taste of life. You know your ex the best, so go out on a date (providing your relationship had been a fairly good one before) and see where it goes. Don't go through life on "what ifs." Sometimes we live to regret it. Good luck Marcy

Answer 9

No, never if you are the one who broke up never go crawling back ... It is not right. But if they did and you still love them , go ahead.

Answer 10

No you should not try to get your ex back . You should try to forget him. You should move on and enjoy your life.