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Should you wait until you can afford to leave your verbal abuser because you have no other resources and nowhere else to go?

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βˆ™ 2007-03-25 03:06:01

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NO! See if there is a womans shelter where you live. Stay with a friend, co-worker, family. Just anyone to get out of that relationship. Good luck and God Bless:) There is never going to be a better time to make your life better than now. There are agencies in your town who can advise and help you find your way. If your abuser is not allowing you out to get a job and isolating you from other people, then your options are limited for your trying to do it on your own. You will have to accept outside help for now--you can pay it back by helping in the future. Right now, you need to find your own stability.

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