cutting up your best t-shirts, slapping your face, kissing somebody else and shouting abuse messages at you are all signs of your ex still loving you.
You don't, but if she is then that is her problem. It is your ex-girlfriend, you should have moved on.
If she tells you.
1) she raises her eyebrows when she see's you 2) he phones or visits you often 3)she keeps your phone number on her mobile
say how much you love her
there is nothing you can do
she calls, mails you and ask you out again.
She asks your friends how you are doing, if you are seeing anyone and if you ask about her.
Because he still loves her and because he never really has forgotten about her.
You can maybe tell him about how you feel like when your with him how happy you are and how you feel safe with him
don't do it.
He either: a. still loves her or b. didn't realize she is still on is 401k plan
Don't do that because she or he. Will get upset and want to fight your ex and dump you