Was it abuse if when you were dating your ex-boyfriend he would yell at you when he had problems at home and go out with other girls and try to hide it from you?
Yes, if it caused you harm emotionally. If your boyfriend was loading you with these types of issues that are his and his alone, and then go out with other girls, that is emotionally distressing. It wasn't physical, because he didn't hit you, right? It might have been mental, but it certainly wasn't sexual. Regardless, it was emotional abuse if it was unpleasant to you and you told him to stop at some point.