What are the rights of a 17-year-old pregnant girl whose parents are getting a divorce and she doesn't want to live with either parent because they don't have a stable life?

Answer 1

No, you don't have to live with either parent after a divorce and you can let the judge know this. Because you are pregnant you are going to need all the support you can get. If there is any relative in your family that you trust get in touch with them and explain what the situation is and perhaps you could live with them. If not you will have to go to a Government Agency to get some support for yourself and eventually your baby. You will need a place to live, try to finish your education and also work part-time. You are taking on quite a load. Good luck hon Marcy You can speak to the judge and tell him where you want to live. It's very likely that, given your age, he will give your wishes a great deal of weight. However, in the end, the judge makes the final decision and you have to abide by whatever he decides.

Answer 2

Get help. Seek a caring relative or friend. If no luck there check your local phone book for a help resource group. A church may have advice or help. Family Services will help. If you plan on putting the child up for adoption there are new families willing to help. You have options and there is help but it will not be easy. You'll have to be strong and determined. Good luck and stay safe.

Seek help from your neighborhood social worker. Social welfare can address your problems.

Afterwards, seek counseling. Nothing is more important than knowing what to do when you are expecting.

Do not think of aborting the baby. The baby did not ask to be in this position. Regardless of what "pro-choice" advocates may say, abortion is still the cessation of an unborn life.

Lastly, and most importantly, pray. If you have not done so, asking help from up above will lift your spirits. Especially since you have a rough life ahead of you.

Answer 3

Texas states that 17 is a legal adult so get a job and get your own apartment but remember your Mom will be there when you need her the most, sleepless nights, school, frightened when baby is sick, alot of old rememdies that you probably don't know about, and above all to have a shoulder for you to cry on when it gets tough and it will. Your Mom loves you alot because you are still there because when I became pregneant I was 15 and had to leave my home and I was scared and I do mean a million times wondering if I was doing it right in all aspects. I say you thank God she wants to protect you and is willing to take this upon herself as well as you because it does affect all in the household I promise you. You just need to think of how much love your little one will have with both of you in his/her life every second of everyday. It's so hard to find a trustworthy person to pick up the slack when you want to fall to the ground with overwhelming tasks and who better than your own Mother, the Grandmother and if you think it's stressful now boy are you going to be shell-shocked after that beautiful creature takes over your life. I wish you many blessings. God Bess You and Mom!