What can you do if you're 16 and have trouble finding a boyfriend even though you're attractive but after you get to know guys you end up being their friend?
Stop worrying about having a boyfriend. I did not really have
one until I met my husband when I was 17. Just be yourself and let
things happen naturally.
Well i would say to you just take your time in finding a boyfriend.
if you start to become hyper focused on finding a boyfriend you
will, out of desperation, make mistakes that will haunt you for
long into your life. At sixteen you probably will not find the one
you will spend the rest of your life with. I've discovered that
most girls have the fantasy of finding their perfect guy and having
the perfect wedding. Wouldn't this great fantasy be even greater if
you can look your new husband in the eyes and honestly say to him;
I waited just for you? the best way to find the right guy for you
is to first be their friend. this helps to get to know their habits
and how they treat women. don't think of this as a curse, think of
it more as a blessing that the guys aren't trying to get in your
pants and then not talking to you. Younger guys usually don't want
to commit and older guys only want one thing from younger girls.
All of this advice is coming from a guy so you probably won't
get a straighter answer from anybody else. Just make friends
because they will be there when you have a break-up. Boyfriends
will come and go but friends are forever. Wait for a guy you know
is worth it and will treat you like the princess you are. I've had
many girlfriends in the past and my only regret is that i didn't
save myself for the princess I have today. I hope I've helped. Good
I'm having the same problem :/ to be honest the other answers are
saying stuff like "you shouldn't expect to find the right person
straight away" and stuff like that - I'm not expecting to, its just
SO off-putting seeing all my friends happy in relationships, and it
makes you wonder whats wrong with you and then that makes you feel
down. I think the best thing to do is keep you're head up because
there is somebody out there for everybody, and just because you
haven't found them yet doesn't mean you never will :)