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What can you do if your boyfriend's mother hates you?



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When you find yourself in a relationship with someone whose mother hates you, several options present themselves:

  1. Avoid all contact with her until she dies (this may take decades, though!).
  2. Get a new boyfriend.
  3. Start dressing identically to her, and manner your speech patterns and gestures to resemble hers. They say imitation is the sincerest method of friendship-forging!
  4. Scrutinize your own modes of behavior to determine if perhaps she has legitimate reasons for hating you (i.e. you visit her house and drink 3 bottles of her Chardonnay and go to the toilet in her vegetable garden in plain sight of the neighbors).
  5. Endure it.