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What conversational tactics can one use to get an abuser to talk about the problem?

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you should not be mean you should be nice and glorify God while u be nice! because we are all going too die and go to heaven or hell. today is the day of salvation! i got saved at bakers!

First, unlesss you are a counselor or shrink you should do nothing. This is for professionals only. Second, even if you are one of the above you should not do anything unless the person asks specifically for your help. It's none of your business and you might make them real mad. Maybe to the point of violence. You say they are an abuser so you need to watch it. Third, if you know for sure that the person has become violent with someone you need to report it to the Police. It's their job to take care of it not yours. Sorry if I seem harsh but... you know.

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