What do gay guys want in a man?

Answer 1

Every gay man will give you a different answer, just as every straight man will give you a different answer about what they like about girls.

It is possible that the reasons someone ends up as gay varies. For some, there could be a difference in how they perceive odors and react to pheromones. Pheromones are chemicals that are released mostly in sweat. Pheromones are subconsciously detected by other people when they travel through the air and enter the nose.

Males and females produce different pheromones, though. Heterosexual males generally react to female pheromones with excitement, arousal, and increased sex drive, which does not occur for male pheromones. In gay males, the reverse happens - male pheromones cause arousal, and female pheromones do not.

However, there are also conscious differences in how odors are perceived depending on gender and orientation. For instance, there is a chemical in male sweat that smells like vanilla to heterosexual women and gay men, while it smells offensive to heterosexal males and butch lesbian women.

For some, perhaps the reason they can be aroused simply by a looking at a picture of an attractive man is because the physical features of males were, since birth, associated with the presence of male pheromones. Similarly, a straight male has the same association with the physical characteristics of females and their pheromones. However, that angle has likely not been scientifically explored too much.

Answer 2

Same things straight men want: fairness, equality, a good job, friends, family, vacations, sex, and a relationship with someone they can love who will love them just as much the morning after. And then a relationship that actually feels better than sex.

Answer 3

It's different for everyone but generally being yourself is a good idea. As for the physical stuff, people find health attractive, so take care yourself.