You need to figure out for yourself if you can see yourself walking down the aisle to either of them one day. You could like your guy friend or best friend, but figure out what kind of like. Like a brother? shoulder to cry on? shopping buddy? idea runner? the person that bails you out? At the moment it sounds like it is unfair to your boyfriend that you MIGHT have feelings for your friend. If the two of you are close, you should tell him what is going on. If he really does care for you he will understand and give you the space that you asked for. Follow your heart.
well im having the same problem but what u should do is just wait a week or so if you feel anything more for your boyfriend if not, you first should see if your best friend likes you back then if he does, then break up with your boyfriend gently and tell your best friend how you feel about him:]
Talk to him about it, if he does its better to know then to always be wondering and if he doesn't, then you've nothing to worry about. It may also be a good idea to ask your friend what she thinks about him.
Make a list of pro's and con's of each person and see which one has more pros. Then consider if you would like to lose your friend if it doesn't work out as a relationship.
You should break up with your boyfriend and get your best friends instead
because he likes your best friend
well if he likes you than why is he with your best friend and not you?
Just talk it out with your friend and it will be ok!
LIkes the attention she gets from you the best friend and the boy.
ask them,
Hang on a sec...do you like your boyfriend? Or is he second best? Do you think that your boyfriend would be OK with it if he knew how you really felt about him? If not, break up with him, regardless of whether or not his friend likes you! Now if you want to know if the likes you, read the related question "How can you tell if a boy likes you?". But don't even think about that until you break up with your current boyfriend! -DJ Craig
If your boyfriend likes your best friend he is always around her, and only is around you when your with her/him. If he asks "Is Alice there?" And you say no and he doesn't come.. Or if you say yes and he does.. Then, you know he likes her.
Then what's your problem?
ask him straight up if he likes you
Be boyfriend & girlfriend. Your friend shouldn't care because he is her OLD or EX boyfriend:-)
It means he's not "your" boyfriend.