What do you do if your in love with someone who has a girlfriend?

Answer 1

If he really loves you, he would finish with his girlfriend and be with you. Dont think that you could have an affair with him, it wouldn't be fair on his girlfriend. Ask him, if he really loves you, to prove it by splitting with her. Are you sure he wasnt just sparing your feelings? Is he someone you've known a long time? If you have, why didnt he admit this sooner? If you havent known him long, try to get to know him properly. He might be someone who gives their love too freely, and could end up just being a player. If in the meantime he splits with her, then go for it, but just tread carefully. its not just him and you in this equation, its her as well. A woman scorned usually comes after the other woman to get her vengance. If you can cope with that, fine, but Im only warning you because Ive been there.

Good Luck, Emma.

AnswerJust remains friends with him. Let him finish that relationship before starting another with you. AnswerI say run for your life. This guy is a cheater. As soon as he told you he loved you he was cheating on his girlfriend. And if it were true, he surely would have left the GF by now. I think the most likely scenario is that he is just saying that he loves you in order to get leverage with you. Let me guess. You said that you love him first, right?? I think that what is probably best for you is to stay away from him and let your feelings subside. If he loved you he would be with you already. AnswerYou move on and find someone who actually DOES love you and doesn't want to string you along and play games. Even his girlfriend should dump him. AnswerThen he needs to choose to either

a: stick with his girlfriend or... b: break up with her.

There's really no other alternatives. He should choose who he loves the most. Simple as that.

AnswerJust maybe he's being nice to the GF and being sincere to the other woman. Maybe there is a reason he can't leave, such as severe depression of the GF. I don't think he's stringing you along and I think you might be able to work it out. The only leverage I see is that the GF will stick with this guy no matter how he treats her, she's a doormat. Let me guess he makes a good income. It doesn't matter who say I love you first, you just both have to mean it! Good luck and be careful. Don't let this woman know where you live. AnswerHAS HE CHEATED ON ANYONE B4? AnswerI know exactly what you mean. I have the same problem, but it isn't because he is with another girl. It's for other reasons, but the only advice I can give you is to wait. That's all I can do and trust me it will drive you crazy, but just relax and be patient. Remember: Good things come to those who wait. At least that's what I have always heard:) Things may not work out with his girlfriend, and if he really loves you then he'll leave her and be there for you. Like I said though be patient! Hang in there! AnswerOh boy, could you really trust him if you did get together? What a player! answertell him to chose the one he loves the most

Answer 2

Well what i think you should do is become closer friends with him and get to know him better! Hang out with him as much as he hangs out with his girlfriend. Don't bring up the fact that you like him, because you might loose him. But it might be ok to say you have a little crush on him. Ask him questions about his girlfriend. ( And maybe you can throw in a little flirting every once and a while. ) ;]

Answer 3

Well i might not be a lad but to be honest im in the same situation as you. the you have got to do is tell this lad how you feel and see how he feels. because you will never find out until you try. but hey what the hell just go for it you never no he might feel the same. you no what they say about men ...... you cant live with them and you cant live without them. hope everything goes well all the best love from nikki

Answer 4

Highschool relationships dont last very long most likely they will brake up in a couple of months. Become friends with the guy but not too flirty if you play your card right he could brake up with the girl for someone else. DO NOT CHEAT. If you do and the two of you break up you will be known as the girl who cant be trusted around peoples boyfriends

Answer 5

What you should do is realize that a year from now, you'll be in the girlfriend's shoes. While *you* are his girlfriend, he'll be telling someone else that he loves them.

Answer 6

Maybe you should not see him or talk to him for a while and see how you feel after that.

Answer 7

spend time with then make them a good friend if they break up be supportive ,then they might realise your perfect for them! good luck! x

Answer 8

That person has to decide whether to keep or dump their girlfriend. If he's not letting go of her, stay friends with him. You don't wanna get into trouble with his girlfriend.

Answer 9

Murder her.