What do you do if you like a guy who might like your friend but says he doesnt fancy her and he sometimes acts nice towards you?
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How can you demonstrate your feelings that you like her towards a girl who is your best friend and have an awesome friendship amd sometimes acts as if she likes me because of things she says?
Answer . as you do not state your age and whether this is a first relationship an answer is limited to generalisations. I would first say that you should consider that if you change your best friend relationship to a romantic relationship you may not be able to retain the best friend status if …romantically things do not work out for you both. secondly, when females are comfortable in a relationship they are not guarded in what they say and may appear flirtatious because they feel safe to do so. What she says may not necessarily be an indication that she wants to take things further. In your case, of course I may not be correct. If you do wish to proceed to a romantic level, maybe start subtely, like direct eye contact, not a stare, holding is just a little longer than you would with anyone else, smiling at same time. Subtle gestures, like running your finger along her arm or using a finger to stroke her face or raise her chin to make eye contact. These gestures or other such gentle tactile ones hopefully will prompt a response. From this hopefully you will guage her intentions without directly confronting her. Do everything at a slow pace so if your gestures are not welcomed you will have no regret. All the best for you both. . Answer best friend relationships . as you do not state your age and whether this is a first relationship an answer is limited to generalisations. I would first say that you should consider that if you change your best friend relationship to a romantic relationship you may not be able to retain the best friend status if romantically things do not work out for you both. secondly, when females are comfortable in a relationship they are not guarded in what they say and may appear flirtatious because they feel safe to do so. What she says may not necessarily be an indication that she wants to take things further. In your case, of course I may not be correct. If you do wish to proceed to a romantic level, maybe start subtely, like direct eye contact, not a stare, holding is just a little longer than you would with anyone else, smiling at same time. Subtle gestures, like running your finger along her arm or using a finger to stroke her face or raise her chin to make eye contact. These gestures or other such gentle tactile ones hopefully will prompt a response. From this hopefully you will guage her intentions without directly confronting her. Do everything at a slow pace so if your gestures are not welcomed you will have no regret. All the best for you both. ( Full Answer )
Answer . Because most guys think with their other brain. Just wanting to be friends is a way for them to get into your pants without having to deal with getting into a relationship, and the headache that comes with it!
honestly there is no way to know for sure so the way i find the most effective is to just ask him...or tell him you like him and watch his reactions. body movement should change and once he knows you like him he will be more likely to start making moves on you....I mean guys and girls are a lot alik…e he might be just as nervous as you are but in order for him to get over his fear you MUST get over yours...and he will appreciate you more if you let him ask you out....because sometimes by asking them out it makes you look desparate!!! BUT sometimes it is good to ask them out, I mean it depends on the type of guy...if your goin for like a jocky type of guy DO NOT ASK HIM OUT because it will get even more to his head...BUT if its just a regular nice guy ITS OK TO ASK HIM OUT because chances are he wont be a jackass about it!!! . Other than else they might be ignore you, doesnt paying attention to her or maybe he is not entertaining you the way you want to be entertatin just like other people who just like you.Because other people who doesnt like others just telling the truth and seems others are not because they are the type of a timid person.people are all unique and they are different in another way. ( Full Answer )
He will be friends with you but doesn't want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. He doesn't want to date you. We all know people who are nice but we don't want to date all of those nice people.
Why does a girl sometimes pretending to be mean to you when she's nice to you but sometimes acting like mean?
Once in the middle school there was this girl that was alwaysmean to me. She was nice to everyone in the class EXCEPT me. I thengot tricked one day into telling her how i felt about her by myfriends. They used this askjud thing. I didnt liker her at thetime, and said how i felt. After that she got a…ll shy and quietaround me. It was probably a stupid idea to say how i felt out loudin the first place anyways. Now in high school, that same girl isstill mean to me, but shes been acting nicer to me as time goes on.I can actually have a calm conversation with her without hergetting angry over some random little thing. Last year she used toshoot down anything I said in class like I was an idiot. If I saidsomething like Abraham Lincoln was the president during the CivilWar, shed probably say something like,"No duh, matt. Are you stupidor something?" Or she would respond like this , " No, matt. Justno." I dont know if she likes me or not or how to take the way shesbeen acting towards me. Im not sure who I like at the moment but Iwould like it if someone could tell me whether or not if she likesme. ( Full Answer )
This guy I like says he hates me but he acts like he likes me my friend says he told her that he likes me but I cant trust her how can I get him to tell me that he likes me?
You should show him sign that you like him, and then he'll probably show his feeling for you, since he knows you like him.
When a girl admits to a shy guy that she likes him and he kind of acts like he likes her back why doesnt he just say he likes her or not?
hes shy he has trouble opening up give it some time Guys are just scared of getting hurt like girls. and if he is shy... he is scared.. find out if she likes you and then if she does ask her out
This guy doesnt like you but he acts like he does all your friends say he likes you hes shy and doesnt admit his true feelings you asked him out and he said no but started being nice and smiles a lot?
Previous Comment: I really don't know how to give you a straight up answer because I just asked kind of the same question. I have the same problem and I don't know what to do. There is this guy I am friends with; we hang out at school and he does things that show he likes me and his friends say …he talks about me all the time but when I asked him out he said no. He still acts the same and he is shy, but I don't know what to do either. So when you get a real answer let me know too because I need to know. I need help with it on either to move on or make another move because I really like this guy. Answer: For the actual question: He was maybe not expecting you to ask him out, so he said no even though he'd like to. In any case he likes you as a friend at least. You could just ask him whether he's thought about it again, and if he still says he really wants you only as a friend then accept it. Having one more guy as a friend is nice too, isn't it? You can ask him for advice in future love troubles ;) About the comment above: The so-called signs of liking someone like looking at a girl all the time, eye contact and such or talking about you all the time are never a sure thing. They can just as well mean you're only a very interesting girl. Same advice for you: ask him again to show him you were confused over his first answer. Explain to him why you're confused. If he really doesn't want to date you he'll make it clear to you and he might even help you get over him if you ask him to. ( Full Answer )
Usually this just means the boy is too shy to tell other people. In some cases it could mean they are embarrassed. I have experienced this before and i know personally they are usually more embarrassed of themselves then you but if you are truly concerned you should definitely be straight forward wi…th him about how you feel and try asking him what is going on because he may be self conscious after all boys get that way too. I would advise not trying to have your friends find out for you but try to be personal and understand with him because he may just be trying to protect himself from teasing, etc. ( Full Answer )
If a guy is really nice to youre friend it doesn't mean he likes her so don't worry.
If he told you he likes you and told her he doesnt, he is probably a loser and trying to hook up with both of you. Dont waste your time on him.
well ive recently learned that all guys suck and are uncapable of feeling.....but if you really like this guy and think he likes u, then u should go for it. Just casually ask him if he likes u...the worst he can say is no, and if he says no then nothing will change Not all guys suck and are incapa…ble of feeling. But you should just give it your best shot. I am rooting for you! :) ( Full Answer )
What do you do if you like this guy and you are friends and you find out that he doesnt like you even though he totally acted like he did and now he knows that you like him what do i do HELP?
Just figure its his loss. If he won't be friends with you after this, he wasn't a real friend to begin with. You could try the last ditch effort of kissing him as passionately as you can, but I would not suggest it, if you want to salvage the friendship.
Why does my guy friend asked why I act like he doesnt exist sometimes and does he want more attention?
Perhaps you are acting distance towards him if you have been busy with other things in your life. Communication is an extremely essential tool everyone should use. Talk to your friend and ask why he feels this way and then let him know why you haven't spent more time with him. In the future if you a…re going to be busy let your friend know. ( Full Answer )
Your guy-friend is going to introduce you to his friend who you really like How do you act and what do you say?
It would be best to act normal, and tell him of your interest in him (guy's don't pick up on that 'hinting' that you women do; trust me, been there and done it - we are not psychic).
possibly. Talk to him a little more and kinda feel him out. Ask him if he's been seeing anybody or if there is anyone he is interested in. Tell him you know someone who is interested in him.
My girl best friend who I have a crush on likes my guy best friend My guy best friend knows how much I like my girl best friend and told me he doesnt like her but he acts like he does what should i do?
Try and do a double date since you like your girl best frind who likes your guy best friend and try and let them get to know each other better then see where it takes you from there. ANSWER ok ive been in this situation, and i was the girl best friend in the situation.i went up to the guy best frie…nd and told him i liked him and then went and asked the guy best friend's friend (you) and asked him if he liked me. he said yes and we went out, but in your case, if she doesnt want to go out, you can go on crushing on her without dating her, or move on and devolop a new crush on someone else. ( Full Answer )
I like this guy at school and we talk and act like best friends I think he likes and his friends say that he likes me what should I do?
Continue to be his friend, wait for him to ask you out. It's traditional for the man to ask the woman.
My 1st best friend forever told me that the guy that i likes likes me too but two of my friends say that he doesnt like me but that guy is always looking at me at school?
Well, if you are just trying to say, "How can I tell that he likes me?", there are many ways you can tell. He probably looks at you. If you know he's looking and you look at him but he turns away like he never even glanced at you, he possibly likes you. If he talks to you alot and tries to make funn…y jokes, he possibly likes you. One thing you can do to check if he likes you is flirt. I don't mean squeal with your friends really loud or go up to him and say "Hey" every minute. Just be yourself. But try this: when you walk bu him, smile, then look back at him. He'll see you and you don't have to flick your hair or move your hips while you walk to get his attention. Be you!!!!!!! Good luck!!!!! ( Full Answer )
he may like you, but i cant say he loves you. he might have a little crush on you, or maybe when he acts like he likes you, hes onli joking about with you because everyone thinks he likes you. so i suggest you don't make any move on him yet, wait for more signs more readable ones. if he truly has fe…elings for you and he did want you to be his he would tell you if he cares, if he doesent then forget about him, hez not worth it. its all probley a joke to him. ( Full Answer )
If this friend has been just your friend for a while it means that he could be flirting with you. If you don't know him as a friend he could really like you. take it slow and just be friends for a while then take it to the next level if you really like him. Take control and ask him out if you alread…y like him. ( Full Answer )
yah if he doesnt "HATE" you then he likes you both as friends so dont get to sad about it ok ;D
If a guy is really nice to you and everybody thinks they fancy you and then he goes back to his girlfriend and acts like you dont even exist does he like you?
No, that just means that he likes to flirt and act like a heart breaker! never fall for guys like this! I was in the situation and I ended up disappointed a couple of times but i learned from experience to never trust guys like that. Personally, if I were you, I would act like I don't need him in my… life or anything and flirt with other guys when he's around but that's just me. You should follow your heart and be careful! A girl's heart is easily broken but it takes 10 guys to mess with a girl's intelligence : ) ( Full Answer )
You like this guy and your friends thinks he likes you but he teases you with his mates but he can be really nice sometimes what should you do?
If he's teasing you around his friends he likes you and if he's nice to you when they aren't around he REALLY likes you. I'm a guys and for some reason,when we're in school it's not cool for our buddies or 'mates' as you say in Europe, to know we like girls romantically even though the only thing we… ever talk about is who we like and who we want to go out with. (I know, it doesn't make any sense to me either.) I don't know if the teasing bit bothers you but if this is someone you want to go out with you might try shaking him up a little. Try asking him out in front of his friends. Do it in fun but make him say yes or no in front of them. You can also call him or find a way to talk to him alone and see if he wants to go out with you. You'll be able to tell pretty quick. Guys usually only act this goofy when they like a girl so you shouldn't have any trouble. ( Full Answer )
It could be, but you should watch him closely and if he keeps watching you and making comments, he probibly likes you. In my opinion he probibly likes you.
you have to be straightforward! if not, you're gonna give him false hopes. but as for your friend, maybe you could tell her about your situation. so, she can think of a better way to make him like her. ;D gewd luck!
Gee that's too bad, I think that you should just ,move on from him, and if i were you, tell him not to embarass you. Thatll just make it worse, but if that does happen, just ignore them, it will die down.
He won't bring up the subject of that you like him. or He might just not talk to you at all. or He might stop texting/talking etc, when you bring up the fact you like him. or He'll treat you the exact same as before. Hope this helped.
How do you get your friend to admit they like a guy that they says they doesnt but everyone knows she does?
Make sure she trusts you. If you're known for being a loud mouth then she's not going to tell you. She's obviously very shy about it. And if you already know, why do you insist that she tells you herself? Maybe she's trying to tell herself she doesnt because he doesnt feel the same way or she's scar…ed of rejection. ( Full Answer )
Give him the direct approach a guy likes a girl who is brave...if you tell your friend to ask he will obviously say no because he doesnt want anyone to know. Guys like girls! If he says no to you dont waste your friendship with him...and dont be desperate you will fall in love many times. As they s…ay: Another broken heart to Happily Ever After ( Full Answer )
Honey, you have to let this one go and move on. You can't force someone to want to be with you. If he really likes your friend and she likes him, too, chances are that they will be together, for a while at least, anyway. Besides, you deserve to have a guy who is as crazy about you as you are about h…im. It is no fun being in a relationship knowing that the person you are with would rather be with someone else. There is someone out there for you, you just haven't found them yet. Good luck!!! ( Full Answer )
Well, guys will sometimes stare at you, try to spend a lot of time with you, tease you and sometimes buy you stuff or send love notes.
He probably means that he isn't interested in you in a romantic way, but sees you as a mate and would like to keep it that way for now.
Ask him.? Ask him why he says he likes you but doesnt act like it. Either he will answer the question or he doesnt like you..
Does a girl like you if she openly acts like a total btch by constantly being mean towards you in front of her friends when she's nice to all of your friends?
Most likely, she doesn't like you. There's a chance that she does, and doesn't want you to know about it, because that makes her open to your criticism. She may also feel like it makes her girly to like a guy if she's really tomboyish. Hope this helps!
No it does not. Any guy who would say something like that does not like you. He may just be being nice so when his friends realize how much of a jerk he is and they abandon him, he still has one person in the world to talk to. Don't let any guy talk down to you, ever. point blank period,
What does that mean if the guy you like is acting hot and cold to you like sometimes looks into your eyes and says hi and smiles at you but sometimes ignores you and stares at you?
Basically, he's not sure. This could mean a lot of things, but I wouldn't freak out about it too much. He smiles at you, looks into your eyes, and says hello because he feels comfortable with you. A lot of times when it comes to relationships some people don't make eye contact with people their not …comfortable with. Saying hello, that's just being friendly. And smiling (whether random or because you said something amusing) is just being nice. On the other hand, think about why he stares at you. Depending on the look he has about his face, he might be daydreaming about you. If not, he could honestly just be spacing out. As a guy, I can say we do that a lot. I have a friend that sometimes spaces out while staring at people. Yes, its creepy, but he may not realize he's doing it. About the ignoring, he could just be shy around you sometimes. Maybe your wearing an outfit he really likes, or a perfume that really catches his attention. Don't fret about it. Just calm your nerves, and let life takes its course. Hope I helped! :) ( Full Answer )
If he hugs you or if he talks about you often, or if he doesn't have any other female friends, then he probably likes you. If he's very affectionate to you, I would recommend slowly progressing into asking him about it over time.
What does it mean when a guy acts like he liked you and talks about you around his friends but doesnt admit it to anyone else?
That's difficult, 'cause it could go two ways.... Its either he does like you and doesnt want to admit it just because he might be scared about rejection or about the social connection, like with "clicks". OR... He might think your hot or something, so he will talk about you but he doesnt acctua…lly like you, and he doesnt want a relationship with you. ( Full Answer )
I'm not sure you worded your question well. It seems confusing... well, to me anyway. You should submit another question clearing it up. but if its what i think your saying then tell him you dont like him dont say ill that will heart him just say why would you say that
It probably means that he doesn't like you, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Don't waste your time with this guy. Move on.
You should let your best friend know that you like the guy, and that you really have your eye on him. If she still doesn't understand then you might want to give your friendship with her a break, because she isn't a true bestfriend. I'm not telling you to do this. This is just what I would do.
Courting in humans is very difficult to judge. When I took animal behavior we spent a couple days discussing courting in humans and what the process entails. Usually both guys and girls will engage in eye contact which is very brief as well as saying your full name and touching you more frequentl…y. Generally this is called flirting but it is more consistent and easier to identify if you look for good split second eye contact, a constant use of your name, for example instead of Kat they are likely to call you Katherine if they like you regardless of preference, and lastly is poking you on your sides or brushing up against your sides etc. Another option - Ask him. ( Full Answer )
If he likes you in a boy/girl crush way then you should ask him what's up and why he is acting like that. i mean what is ther to lose right? if you guys are alredy in a relationship and he is ignoring you, dump his butt and move on becuase no boy is worth getting worked up over and the 1 tht is wudn…t do tht to u. if it's in a friendly way, just ask him wht's wrong and if he still has feelings for you. hope i cud help! ( Full Answer )
Most of the time there is no way to know for 100%. Sometimes he will say he does because he's confident or cocky. Which can be good or bad. Good if he's confident, bad if he's cocky. And sometimes he will not say it because he's shy. But usually if a guy is interested in you he will be look…ing at you alot, mainly when you're not looking right at him. Try to see if he's looking at you alot with your eyes, but don't turn your head towards him or he may stop. Or, you can always just ask him. Try asking him when he's not around friends, or at least not around alot of friends. Or you can have a friend go ask him for you, if you are too shy to ask him yourself. Hope this helps. ( Full Answer )
I really don't know to be honest because I had a guy do this to me I was so confuss
your a sweet guy and any girl would be lucky to have you but i already have my eyes on some one else
What happens if me and my best friend like a guy but he doesnt like my friend but does like me what should i do?
I was in the SAME EXACT situation. Not even kidding. What happened is the guy like me and didn't like my BFF. I talked to my friend and told her the guy like me and she was VERY upset. But its better to tell her the truth. She WILL get over it if she is a TRUE friend. Wait till she says it's okay to… date him and she's over it. Hope it helps!!!!:))well is that guy going to stick around as long as your best friend has. are u willing to lose that bff for a guy or girl? well i wouldn't well if this guy dumps u and ur friend no longer talks to u. u are left with nothing. so is it really worth it? there's a reason your best friends she loves you, she respects you, she admires you and u have a lot in common. Do you really want to lose that. first of all a true friend wouldn't do that to a best friend.... just remember what goes around comes around I'm a big believer in that lots of luck...... follow your heart!!!!!!! ( Full Answer )
He probably still likes you but is to shy to tell you. Maybe he found out your guy friend told you that he likes you so now he is changing his story because he is shy.
I usually say, "It's nice to have a friend like you." Or did you mean how to say that in some foreign language?