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I really do feel badly for you, but the truth is, if she loved you as much as you think or she has said, then she'd be with you. It sounds like she either doesn't want to hurt your feelings or she's enjoying having two men in love with her. If she has told you she loves you, then meet with her somewhere and tell her plain and simple, "It's either him or me! Make up your mind!" When you love someone and they don't love you back and suggest being friends, it's best to move on, because it will be you that is going to be constantly hurt. If you are meant to be together you will be, but please, for your own sake straighten this out right now with her one way or the other. You don't want to waste precious life on someone that doesn't love you the way you love them. Good luck Marcy

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Q: What do you do if you love and miss your best friend but she is with someone and you know she loves you too and it is hard for both of you?
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