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What do you do if you really like a girl and you are sure she likes you but every time you try to start a conversation with her the conversation doesn't seem to go anywhere?

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09/13/2011

Be blunt... tell her how you feel about her. Don't sugar coat it. If she feels the same way (or not), you'll know a lot sooner this way.

Remember, this is YOUR world, and she's a guest in it! Let her know how you feel! She can not ask you out! You have to ask her! Cut to the chase, It maybe too late this time, But next time, Stop with all the talk! It is way out of hand. Walk up when she is alone, (you do not need help with this) Stand tall, be polite but blunt. You can tell her you want to have sex with her. Tell her you know it will not be on the first date,or even the second, but how about the third? We'll never know until we get started, I'll pick you up at 6 for dinner at (where-ever)! Even if she never goes out with you, She will always remember you, and wonder what if...? You need to knock them back on their heals. It works! women like strong men! not wousse men. Be MAN, say what you want, Take what you want, It is your world!

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I think I had the exact situation that happened to me here, in Answer #1, as "Walk up when she is alone, (you do not need help with this) Stand tall, be polite but blunt, As blunt as you want to be ." So now, when I think back to it, as mentioned in Answer #1, as "Even if she never goes out with you, She will always remember you, and wonder what if...?", now I'm thinking, since he got up and made his way toward me but I kept on backing off backwards until I reached the end of the trail, what did he wanted to tell me or ask me? All I know, is that he could tell I was scared because I wasn't ready for him before. We were still in high school, and I don't know whether I wanted to be with him or not because of past heartbreaks. So, if he were to approach me the same way as before, maybe I would give him a chance, but only if he truly loves me, hadn't fallen for another girl except for me, stopping the rude flirting with me, etc. as the list can go on for a while. However, the only thing I disagree with Answer #1 is that why would you tell someone, especially a girl, that you want to have sex with her?! That is so disgustingly random and wrong! Saying that to them makes you seem like a dirty player or a dirty "pick-up" guy from some nightclub. You'll only know when the time is right when she makes the first move and not you because you don't want to sexually abuse her and give her the impression that this guy only wants to be with me because he just wants sex from me since he's not treating me right with respect because he didn't love me in the first place. So, make sure whatever you do, don't tell the girl that you want sex with her or else I'm 100% sure she'll slap you for saying that, except if she's a player, stripper, or a porn star that is!