It may be a good idea to just step away from the both of them.
I've been in this situation twice, with the same ex. Both times, I got the same bull from the "friend," saying things like "this is killing me," and "I love you like a brother."
Now, granted, you should take into account how long you dated this girl, and how serious it was. But, for me, the best option was to just walk away.
You date her best friend
i dont have a friend that has an ex girlfriend that is dating his friend when your friend is on a summer vacation so i cant no no no no no a
No they are not dating. He would not date the ex-girlfriend of his best friend!!
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start thinking of her as a friend and not as a ex girlfriend. treat her as if she is your friend and try to get comfortable around her as a friend.
No, I don't think doing something like this would be wise, generally some teens have this sort of code where those who dating best friend's of friend's ex-girlfriend it could ruin their relationship IMMENSELY. You should get over her or at least talk to the best friend about this, at least talking about it would make the situation a little better, however, I think dating her period is out of the question.
The ex-girlfriend is the girl he no longer is dating.
Talk to her about it.
date her BEST friend.
She isn't a very good friend, ex boyfriends are off limits!
It depends on what you are looking for in a girlfriend. The rule of thumb is, treat her right and she will return the favor. Before dating your best friend's ex-girlfriend, I would recommend asking him to see what his reaction would be.
The problem started in your relationship with your girlfriend because of your mixed feelings for her and now that the two of you no longer are seeing each other you both can date whomever you want. However, she may be trying to get back at you (rebound) by dating your best friend or there is always the possibility she had been seeing your best friend while being in a steady relationship with you. Your best friend should have more respect and compassion for your feelings and realize that by dating your ex girlfriend he is hurting you. You should consider the fact perhaps the mixed feelings for your ex girlfriend had some validity to it and as far as your best friend be very aware of him as sometimes it's the best friend that can hurt you the most. Be smart and move on by getting out with different friends and eventually back into dating until you find that special girl that you truly love.